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Posted in Parenting and Spanking on 2019-03-02 15:24:21

Mr Rick, sir

Still here with a message to follow

Jamie M in New York

Posted in Parenting and Spanking on 2019-01-19 19:02:04

Hello Mr. Rick, sir

It is such a long time since we have posted. You might have wondered where I was or if I was ever going to write again. But here I am again. It is not that easy to get rid of me. All over the time running up to Christmas and even till now things have been hectic and even finding 5 minutes has been a struggle. But now I think I have most of the day to myself again, but it does mean I have time to do my own thing rather than the usual do this Jamie do that Jamie or the more ominous JAMES MCCALLISTER!!

This time I cannot blame my tardiness on the failure of technology. As a boy I learnt never to try the same excuse twice. You might be lucky the first time but I think my dad new every trick in the book. You know he had been here and done that. Even when he could see through my implausible excuses I think he sometimes let me get away with things. It is a great dad who knows when to be er, er flexible and when to put his foot down, when to admonish with words and when you need to be punished. A wise Dad knows the difference.

Is hard to imagine a time when you had to rely on a pen pencil and eraser for everything. These days most of our teachers expect assignments to be processed and many require them to be submitted electronically. That does not mean they are not discussed in class. It just makes things easier for teachers. But technology is always moving on and what seems cutting-edge today will probably seem old fashioned by the time I have children of my own and they will wonder how we managed without, without... Who knows what will happen end where we will be. Even today everything has a remote control or can be controlled by Alexa. That is the latest arrival in our house. Technology? Yes yes yes.

I do not know why or how but at a certain age we develop what our dads call attitude. As you say it happens to all of us even good boys. Your mouth and your behavior seem to be uncontrollable but you know that is no excuse for your words and actions. I do not think my dad would have done a lot different if I had done what you did. For sure my little boy bottom felt the paddle and belt plenty of times but maybe that was the best way to deal with an arrogant boy. I may be 16 and through that stage. But if I get mouthy and act like a 12-year-old I know there is plenty of leather left in that belt and I am sure that dad's tennis arm can still whop mighty hard. You learn discipline from your dad. I wonder if I would spank my son or use some more modern alternative. Spanking gets such a bad press this days and it is not always the answer. Not for every boy. Some people still think that the way to solve all problems start at the bottom, on the bottom. (swish swish swish ouch ouch yeeow!!!) Did your dad ever take that approach?

Quite often the best way to nurse a recently spanked bottom is to lie face down on your bed without bothering to pull up your pants and shorts over a throbbing bottom. At 16 it is humbling to get any kind of whipping, but being whipped like a kid just make it worse. How old were you when you learned not to cry when you were spanked? You know your dad will always do the best for you but if you talk the talk you have to walk the walk and for me that walk often up to my bedroom. Crikey, no fun being 12. Again!

Ollie and I were not given the choice of where we would prefer to be spanked. It would not make much difference to us where we were. It would depend on who else was there. I have never had a bare bottom spanking in public. I was once spanked in a mall but my pants and underwear did not come down until we got home. It was still probably the most embarrassing experience of my entire life! Some of my friends saw me spanked naked when dad called me out from the neighbors swimming pool and pulled down my trunks. Ollie and I are used to seeing each other spanked, even bare bottom, and we have played spanking games in the nude so I guess we do not care where we were when we was beat so long as the wrong people were not there. Imagine a girl seeing your rosy red bottom while you are doing corner time with your shorts down. Yes, imagining, but did anything like that ever happen to you?

A mom can spank you good but I think boys really need it from their dad especially when he gets a bit older. Yeah we had the naughty chair and the corner too, but sometimes mom got out that little sandal that she kept for just one reason, pulled me over her that and tugged down my shorts and underwear. That gave plenty of sting to a boys soft bottom. I am sure the school paddle hurt good and I would think a paddling was quite an event that engendered a lot of interest. Were you ever persuaded to pull down your shorts in the boys locker room for an inspection? The nearest we got to that is seeing a marked bottom when we showered naked after PE when a boy had been beaten at home. It is a long time since that happened. I do not think that many boys are beaten at home any mote

Open relationships and open communications make happy families. There is give-and-take but also some lines that you do not cross. In a happy family you feel secure and safe and know that by the time dad punishes you you probably deserve it several times over. Dad is going to do all he can to avoid having to spank you. Do you really think that's all boys, good boys like Ollie and me are really naughty enough at times to need our bottom spanked? Ollies dad thought we were. My Dad thought we were. We were whipped sometimes and I guess most of the time we deserved it and if we did not we put it down to experience and remembered some of the things we had not been spanked for. Those shorts down spankings we got have not damaged us emotionally or physically. Like you said your dad is your best friend, your best ally and your best role model. It is fun to do things with your dad, and sometimes dad is like a little kid. But he always maintained his dad authority and dad status` with us, a man I loved, love and respect. The man I would most like to be. My hero. I think when you get to be 16, nearly 17 you begin to see a better side of your dad, I side you never knew he had

I have been driving the car whenever I can and I think I am a much better driver already. My dad has been helping me with that by taking me in heavy traffic and on faster roads. He said you never stop learning and you need to stay smart and think about driving and keeping safe. I am not going to do anything stupid. Being able to drive at all and having some access to a car is enough to impress my friends even if they do sometimes think I am a taxi service. Golly, I was so proud and so nervous parking my limo outside Kirsty's house. Well, it is not actually a limo, and for that matter is not actually mine either but it felt like it was. I felt so grown up being able to pick Kirsty up and be the driver. Yeah, always remember I am a young man now more than a kid and that there are different expectations, different perspectives different choices and different consequences that could be much more serious than facing dad and his belt.

I love talking with you and hope to hear from you soon.

Goodbye for now

Jamie

Posted in Parenting and Spanking on 2018-11-04 10:27:24

Hello again Mr. Rick.

Technology is wonderful when it works and we feel so let down when it does not or went we make an error.

I guess we all had those times in our life when we feel I'm a little serve down and not Too Proud our actions words or behavior. I do not have enough fingers and toes to count them.

I do not know which was worse out of your mouth and your attitude but I think you're dead probably did the right thing in that moment at that time. I am sure the belt hurt on your bare bottom but you said what hurt even more was the hurt look in your dad's eyes. I have seen that look too and it is not very nice. I guess you did not think before telling your dad you were too old to be paddled or did not think that he would turn to the belt as a suitable alternative. I know how severe the belt is because that is what my dad uses on me, has used on me. I do not think hope he will do it again but there are certain actions which could only have that conclusion.

Ever is a very big question but I am sure they both did put both of us face down on a bed with our jeans and shorts down. Usually it is over the back of the chair or if we are downstairs the arm of the sofa, you could be paddled or whipped almost anywhere. We were most usually spanked in the bedroom, Ollie s or mine. I am too tall to go over the knee anymore but my experience there is I think similar to yours.

I must have been quite young when I goaded my mum to spank me harder. If I had been a little older I would have had the sense not to say something so stupid and in any case dad would have been punishing me. It was before I went to Middle School I think a lot of boys get mouthy about then and think they can get away with anything. Mum used to spank the whole bottom particularly the part out with the leg holes and when you did not need to see the damage in the mirror to know she had.

If mum gave you a licking you knew you had had a licking and no further punishment was required. The naughty chair time out was sometimes enough but other times it was a prelude to something more when dad got home. I should stress that Dad getting home did not necessarily or even usually mean a spanking. There are other dad sized punishments for boys like us.

Ollie and I were never really bad boys, but we were boys and so like all boys everywhere just a bit naughty at times. Sometimes we were a bit naughtier than that. But most of the time we were just playing and having fun.

I think togetherness open relationships and two-way communication are the essence of a happy family. If you have those you need little more. Without them nothing else will do. We were the lucky ones with strong stable relationships at home and parents who were both there for us in their own ways.

There is a lot your mum can do for you but a teenage boy really needs a Dad there. He is not just there to discipline you. He will take you to the ball game or football practice run with you along the beach razz and tease you and take whatever you give him back, talk with you about boy things and provide you with a wonderful role model of Man husband and father. Every boy needs dad or dad figure in his life.

I think it is horses for courses and different things are effective for appropriate at different times with different dads and different boys. Anything that leaves that message that he is with love and care is bad to touch a boy's heart and make him want to show you his better side. I know how effective spanking was on my bottom but I also know there are other ways and many boys get by without it. It was you who said that there is not a boy alive who does not need at least once making. Do you still think that? The realization that Dad really is about to turn your hide, and that feeling you have as you tug your jeans and shorts down and bend over is almost as effective as the pain he lays on your butt.

I have taken the car how's a few times on my own and dad is teaching me to be a better driver. But just imagine how I felt the first time I arrived at Kirstie s house driving myself. It may have been mom s old runaround but to me it felt more like a limousine.

That is all for now but please keep in touch.

Best wishes

Jamie

Posted in Parenting and Spanking on 2018-10-15 10:41:37

ding ding ding crash! Guess I dropped a clanger!

Wiil edit last message to make i an easier read

All the best

Jamie

Posted in Parenting and Spanking on 2018-10-13 12:55:05

Hello Mr. Rick

I have read several times your account of the time you opened your mouth one tme too many times and told your dad you were too old to be paddled. You said it was not a smart move because he decided that even if you were too old to be paddled you were not too old (or too young) to get the belt.

That did not happen to me but it reminded me or something similar from my growing up years. As a little kid I was more likely to be spanked by mom and by dad, simply because she was there when I needed spanking. She always had my pants down but to make it clear that was to make it hurt more she seldom had my briefs down as well. Brief is the word because those skimpy shorts covered little and left large areas of the bottom bare. She always used a hairbrush. It was mostly done over her knee or her lap.

I remember the occasion she was giving me a hiding to remember and it was beginning to sting like hell and really hurt. I was trying really really really hard not to cry and I do not know why I thought it would be a good idea to wind her up. There was no way it was going to help me. So I almost goaded her to spank me harder claiming that doesn't hurt! I cannot think why I said such a stupid thing. It made my mom who was already mad with me even madder and she rained down more harder swats on my bottom.

She did not use the hairbrush much after that. She thought it was time Dad took over punishing a wayward son. He did not $%!@ foot either and by the time I started High School if I was spanked at all, and I was, dad would take me upstairs or send me to fetch the belt from my room and reacquaint my bottom with the leather.

My parents were good to me, are good to me. There were rules but not too many and there was moderate reasonable punishment suitable for a growing boy. Of course my best friend Ollie was also sometimes involved. Well actually most of the time. His dad and mine did not make much distinction between us when it came to dealing with our naughtiness and misbehavior. There was always some of that, but then we were boys.

Our parents have time for us. Time to praise and ti to admonish and time to be parents as well as friends. We play we laugh we talk and maybe it is that that your young clients missed most of all.

Security structure safety and guidance are things we all need.

Jamie

PS And I passed my driving test :-) Just