Home dress code - who's right?

Hello, my mom forces me to wear dress code at home. It is stricter than my uniform in school. This is my school uniform and rules: white shirt must be cumpletely buttoned and tucked in, trousers must be secured with belt, tie must be tight, must wear sweater and must wear blazer. But I must wear this only at school. This year mom started me to wear dress code at home, she chooses me clothes every evening.Everyday I must wear a shirt (buttoned and tucked in), trousers with belt (the belt must be tight enough so if I put my hands up, the shirt doesn't go out), tie, sweater or vest and jacket. Everything must be properly worn and buttoned. She ties my tie and she makes it bit choking. Also, everytime she enters my room, I must say and say "Good afternoon ma'am, I am ready for inspection", put my hands up and don't move until she finishes my inspection. If I wear something wrong, I'm punished. I must wear dress code all the time I'm not in school or I don't sleep.