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Asking Parents for a Spanking

This is a poll concerns asking one's parents for a spanking. The intention is for adults who are recalling an instance from their past but is also open to those who still have a relationship with their parents who have recently asked or are considering asking.

When did you ask, or thinking of asking your parents for a spanking?

4% (63) Early childhood (under 10)
16% (247) Pre-teen (11-12)
48% (737) Teen (13-17)
14% (215) Early adult (18-20)
16% (248) Adult (21+)

1510 voters have answered this question.

Did you actually?

10% (165) No, never did, and it's too late now
14% (214) No, but I think I still might
4% (66) No, and I never will
65% (991) Yes, and received a spanking
4% (74) Yes, but was not spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

Your gender

55% (841) Male
44% (669) Female

1510 voters have answered this question.

Your age now

36% (553) Under parental supervision (under 18)
63% (957) Adult (18+)

1510 voters have answered this question.

Which parent did you, will you, or would you have asked?

45% (693) Mom
20% (306) Dad
21% (328) Both
12% (183) Other relative instead

1510 voters have answered this question.

Why ask for a spanking?

44% (678) Guilt over a transgression
25% (380) Prefer to a different punishment
36% (550) Desire to improve behavior or belief that other punishments weren't working
31% (480) Curious what it's like to get spanked
17% (262) Want to improve bond with parent(s)
18% (275) Friends and others get spanked, and want the same
10% (158) Not sure

1510 voters have answered this question.

How did you, will you, or would you have asked?

25% (389) Suggest as an alternate punishment after already having gotten in trouble
30% (468) Had a general discussion about discipline and brought it up
30% (468) Just asked "out of the blue" not during a time when actually in trouble for anything
16% (253) After already being punished for something, suggested you weren't punished enough and still should be spanked too.
18% (274) Wrote parent(s) a note asking for a spanking
9% (143) Used reverse psychology, for example when in trouble, just saying "well, I'm too old for a spanking," even if spanking hadn't been mentioned or expected.
13% (208) Hinted by talking about others' spankings, leaving newspaper articles about spanking, leaving a browser history about wanting a spanking, etc.
8% (123) Other

1510 voters have answered this question.

What was the parents' reaction when you asked, or what do you expect it will/would be?

30% (454) Proud of your maturity and courage to ask
27% (405) Shocked, but understanding
5% (88) Shocked, and appalled or disgusted
10% (161) Had an idea you'd ask sooner or later
25% (377) You have no idea what to expect

1485 voters have answered this question.

Did you, or will you supply details of the requested spanking?

31% (480) No, nothing other than saying you should get a spanking
23% (349) Yes, but just vaguely in terms of severity
45% (681) Yes, specific details regarding baring, position, implement, etc.

1510 voters have answered this question.

If supplying details, are they:

9% (138) Less severe than you probably deserve (too scared to request more)
47% (720) About what you think you deserve
20% (309) More severe than you think you deserve
22% (343) N/A

1510 voters have answered this question.

Was the actual spanking you received:

8% (128) Less severe than you deserved or expected
38% (575) About what you deserved or expected
30% (461) More severe than you deserved or expected
22% (346) Wasn't spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

If you specified a position, was that request honored, and what was it?

52% (792) Over the knee
22% (340) Bent over furniture
5% (87) Standing
17% (268) Laying on bed
7% (114) Other
18% (272) Made no request or request wasn't honored
15% (228) Wasn't spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

If you specified clothing, was that request honored, and what was it?

3% (50) Requested fully clothed, spanked fully clothed
1% (20) Requested fully clothed, spanked on underwear
8% (130) Requested fully clothed, spanked bare
0% (5) Requested on underwear, spanked fully clothed
3% (52) Requested on underwear, spanked on underwear
13% (208) Requested on underwear, spanked bare
0% (9) Requested bare, spanked fully clothed
0% (14) Requested bare, spanked on underwear
50% (757) Requested bare, spanked bare
17% (265) Not spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

If you specified clothing, why?

3% (52) Fully clothed: want protection from the pain
5% (89) Fully clothed: too embarrassed to have pants down or skirt up
0% (14) Fully clothed: chose a more severe implement to compensate for extra protection
1% (22) Fully clothed: other
11% (168) Underwear: felt that less protection was deserved, but too embarrassed to be bared
4% (61) Underwear: just wanted the sensation through thin cloth
6% (93) Underwear: wanted just a little protection from the pain
2% (33) Underwear: other
38% (588) Bare: bare is the proper traditional way and anything less wouldn't be a real spanking
30% (468) Bare: the humiliation is a part of the spanking
33% (513) Bare: the pain should be fully experienced
25% (378) Bare: want spanker to see skin reddening properly
8% (124) Bare: other
16% (242) Didn't specify

1510 voters have answered this question.

How did you feel in retrospect regarding clothing?

1% (26) Chose fully clothed or underwear and regret not choosing bare to get the full experience
3% (60) Chose fully clothed or underwear, and glad the request was honored
5% (79) Chose fully clothed or underwear, but parent bared me anyway, and it was awful
11% (178) Chose fully clothed or underwear, but parent bared me anyway, and you're glad they did
1% (21) Chose bare, received not bared, was disappointed
42% (635) Chose, bare, received bare, was glad
4% (75) Chose bare, received bare, regretted because it was too painful
3% (55) Chose bare, received bar, regretted because it was too embarrassing
6% (103) Didn't specify
18% (278) Wasn't spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

Other than when asking for a spanking, were you:

25% (388) Never spanked before
21% (324) Rarely spanked
42% (639) Used to be spanked, but hadn't been in some time
10% (159) Spanked frequently

1510 voters have answered this question.

If you were spanked at the time, did the requested spanking differ from usual spankings?

16% (251) Never spanked before, no basis for comparison
19% (301) Was spanked only when much younger, it's difficult to compare now that you're older
1% (30) Less severe
15% (232) About the same
17% (261) More severe due to spanker's choice
6% (97) More severe due to your request of clothing
12% (182) More severe due to your request of implement
14% (219) More severe due to your request of length or number of spanks
18% (273) Not spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

What was your reaction during?

8% (127) Minimal
22% (338) Some crying
18% (273) Hard crying
15% (232) Sobbing
16% (248) Out-of-control sobbing
19% (292) Not spanked

1510 voters have answered this question.

Looking ahead, are you likely to:

17% (257) Not have an opportunity to ask for a spanking
11% (180) Continue thinking about it, but probably will never have the nerve to go through with it
2% (31) Never ask again because this time was just too much
3% (48) Ask again, but ask for something less severe than this time
19% (299) Ask again for the same
2% (45) Ask again, but with pants down next time
5% (90) Ask again, but with underwear down next time
7% (119) Ask again, but with an implement instead of a hand spanking next time
11% (173) Ask again, but with a more severe implement next time
18% (279) Ask again, but with longer/harder spanks next time
13% (200) Ask again, requesting more severe, but unspecified as to how
32% (489) Ask again, leaving it all up to the parent

1510 voters have answered this question.

What was your reaction right afterwards?

46% (684) I really deserved that
33% (491) I've had that coming for a long time
10% (158) That was too embarrassing
11% (174) That was too painful
22% (328) I hated it, but it'll do me good
23% (350) I secretly liked it
8% (122) I regret I never asked
1% (21) I'm glad I never asked
37% (556) I wish my parents had just known I needed it without having to ask
10% (147) Other

1464 voters have answered this question.

What are your thoughts on someone growing up without ever getting spanked, and never having asked for one?

8% (121) Lucky
43% (661) Too bad, everyone should experience a spanking at least once
18% (279) Spoiled brat
6% (95) What a coward they never asked for one
16% (254) Too bad they never asked, but it's understandable
10% (158) Too bad there weren't any advice for them to help them know how to ask
24% (369) I would have encouraged them to ask if I'd known them
13% (200) Other

1510 voters have answered this question.

This poll was created on 2015-06-08 20:59:05 by adamkessler2
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