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Spanking in Retrospect

One day when I was 12, I did something pretty bad and was not punished for it. Without getting into too much detail, I threw a very loud and public tantrum in the mall with my mom for... no real reason. I was never once spanked growing up, but I have always felt like I absolutely deserved one that day. I often think if I'd had the courage, I should have asked my mom to spank me. Please put yourself in my mom's shoes that day and consider what you think I should have done, and how you would have reacted.

What should I have done, if I could go back to 12 and do it?

2% (9) Nothing
18% (66) Write mom a letter, describing my guilt and requesting punishment
14% (54) Directly talk to mom, describing my guilt and let her handle it as she sees fit
64% (236) Directly talk to mom, and specifically ask her to punish me

365 voters have answered this question.

Knowing that spanking is the punishment I feel like I deserved, should I:

12% (46) Not specifically request a spanking, leaving the punishment entirely to mom
50% (186) Ask for a spanking
36% (133) Ask for a spanking and detail the specifics

365 voters have answered this question.

In the following ff you were my mom, what detailed specifics would you feel were most appropriate (I marked what I feel I deserved with an asterisk): Where

34% (125) living room
52% (193) my bedroom *
12% (47) mom's bedroom

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When

36% (133) immediately after our discussion
45% (166) after a short time to think about it *
18% (66) much later (before bed)

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Positioning

68% (250) over the knee *
8% (31) laying on the bed
15% (57) bending over a piece of furniture
7% (27) bending over grabbing ankles

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State of Outerwear

1% (7) fully clothed
52% (192) pants pulled down *
45% (166) pants removed entirely

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Removal of Outerwear

3% (11) n/a
59% (218) mom pulls them down as I stand *
37% (136) mom order me to pull them down

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State of Underwear

2% (9) underwear on
2% (10) underwear on, but "wedgied"
3% (12) underwear pulled down just past bottom
32% (120) underwear pulled down to knees *
19% (71) underwear pulled down to ankles
39% (143) underwear removed entirely

365 voters have answered this question.

Removal of Underwear

3% (11) n/a
46% (169) mom pulls them down as I stand *
19% (71) mom pulls them down after putting me in position
31% (114) mom orders me to pull them down

365 voters have answered this question.

Lecturing / Pre-Spanking / Nudity (if removals)

1% (7) n/a
10% (38) lecture occurs before baring
7% (28) lecture occurs after shorts removed, before underwear
37% (137) lecture occurs after totally bared, facing mom
34% (126) lecture occurs after placed in position *
7% (26) no lecture

362 voters have answered this question.

Implements

72% (266) hand *
60% (222) wooden hairbrush *
13% (49) plastic bathbrush
26% (97) wooden spoon
15% (57) ruler / yardstick
30% (111) light paddle (ping pong style) *
26% (95) heavy paddle (school principal style)
40% (146) belt

365 voters have answered this question.

Length

14% (53) fixed number: double my age (24) *
8% (31) fixed number: 20-30
12% (44) fixed number: 40-50
1% (5) fixed time: 2 minutes
1% (7) fixed time: 3-4 minutes
7% (27) fixed time: 5-6 minutes
3% (13) conditional: until I cry
25% (92) conditional: until I cry hard / sob
25% (93) conditional: until I go limp sobbing

365 voters have answered this question.

Cadence

17% (65) steady, measured spanks
11% (42) slow, methodical spanks
13% (51) rapid spanks
56% (207) varied, unpredictable with slow periods and rapid periods *

365 voters have answered this question.

Bottom Condition when Finished

1% (6) pink
20% (74) red
52% (191) firery red, some bruising *
15% (58) red/purple, vast bruising
9% (36) black and blue, severely beaten

365 voters have answered this question.

After this, my first spanking, should I request a change in discipline?

9% (35) No
11% (43) Request spankings for only the worst of misbehavior
57% (209) Request all punishments are spankings; including lighter spankings for lesser infractions and severe spankings for worse misbehavior
21% (78) Request for a formal demerit program where the week's misbehavior is tallied on Sunday night and is punished with one or more spankings as per a determined system

365 voters have answered this question.

If requesting a scheme with lighter spankings, what makes it lighter?

23% (79) shorter duration
33% (113) less severe implement or hand only
12% (41) less hard spanks
5% (19) keep underwear on
24% (81) offered a choice of underwear-on implement spanking or bare hand spanking

333 voters have answered this question.

If requesting a scheme with "moderate" spankings, what makes it lighter than the severe spanking but more severe than the light spanking?

27% (89) duration in-between the two
21% (69) combo of less severe implement, but longer duration
18% (60) less severe implment only
32% (106) offered a choice of long-duration hand spanking or short-duration implement spanking

324 voters have answered this question.

If requesting a scheme with a range of light/moderate/severe spankings as appropriate for all misbehavior, how often would typical 12 year old behavior find me getting spanked, on average?

31% (107) multiple times per week
32% (112) about once a week
17% (60) a few times a month
12% (43) about once a month
5% (20) less than 12 times annually

342 voters have answered this question.

While mom has final control over punishment spankings, should we also agree on a "no questions asked" policy where I can request a spanking without saying why?

17% (64) no
21% (77) yes, and receive a moderate spanking
30% (112) yes, and receive a severe spanking
30% (112) yes, and permit me to request all the specifcs on a form with checkboxes

365 voters have answered this question.

This poll was created on 2013-04-19 21:05:04 by adamkessler2
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