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Am I a horrible person?

Here's the story...My mom has three kids and a boyfriend who has two kids. At the beginning of 2006 we moved to Florida because my mom's parents and her boyfriends parents live down here. We lived in a 3 bedroom house and I was constantly watching the kids who were 3 and 5. I was only 16 at the time. And I was stressed out becuase I had to share a room with them and I couldn't get 1 second to myself. Not even in the bathroom. I would be in the bathroom and they would yell through the door so I couldn't get any privacy. The 3 year old isn't potty trained so I also had to change his clothes and try to get him on the potty. We could hardly afford food and rent though and Mom's boyfriend's parents wouldn't help so we had to send the kids to Missouri to live with their mom. She doesn't take very good care of them and now I feel really guilty because I got so stressed I went to my Grandma's and lived with her and hardly visited my mom and my mom said it was because I hated the kids but I thought I loved them. I was just stressed. Now I am confused because I don't know if I hate or love them. Please answer seriously
Is it my fault they had to go back to Missouri?
Yes! It is all your fault!
No, it wasn't your fault
It was their stupid grandparents and mom who wouldn't send them any money and let them starve!
Do you think I am a bad person based on the story I just told you?
Yes. You are a horrible person
No You are a great person. You did your best.
I think you are bad but not horrible
I think you are good. You tried to take care of them.
Do you think they should live with their Dad who is strict or their Mom who is lazy (and neglectful)?
Dad
Mom
Neither(this really isn't an option)
Do you think 16 is too young to be taking care of 2 toddlers full time? (I watched them most of the day)
Yes, it would be stressful on such a young person
No, that is not too young. Women did it in the old days at 14.
But women in the old days didn't generally live past 30
Ok
The pilgrims, Right?
My Grandma bought the boy some legos from a yard sale but their Dad wants to send them something bought from the store.
He's three! He's happy playing with the stuff he finds in the yard!
Gifts should always be store bought!
What's wrong with used stuff? It's in great condition!
My Grandma bought the boy some legos from a yard sale but their Dad wants to send them something bought from the store.
He's three! He's happy playing with the stuff he finds in the yard!
Gifts should always be store bought!
What's wrong with used stuff? It's in great condition!
This poll was created on 2007-03-11 20:42:39 by Artist in agony