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For kids from 11 to 18: you and your wrongdoings

Since you're a teen, you probably do something wrong sometimes. How do you feel when this happens? How do your parents react? If you're a girl, I invite you to also take the polls at http://www.misterpoll.com/1457412995.html http://www.misterpoll.com/3451473773.html
How old are you
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
18
19
You are
a boy
a girl
Have you ever done anything that, in your honest opinion, was wrong?
Yes
No
What's the attitude of you mother towards your wrongdoings?
She usually shows me what I did was wrong and makes me promise I won't do that again
She punishes me if she thiks it's necessary, but always with love and tries to avoid harsh punishments
She's strict and gives me the punishment she thinks I deserve, though I know it's out of love
She's too harsh, I usually don't deseve a so severe punishment
It usually seems she's not punishment a kid for his best, but just taking a revenge
Other
What's the attitude of you father towards your wrongdoings?
He usually shows me what I did was wrong and makes me promise I won't do that again
He punishes me if she thiks it's necessary, but always with love and tries to avoid harsh punishments
He's strict and gives me the punishment he thinks I deserve, though I know it's out of love
He's too harsh, I usually don't deseve a so severe punishment
It usually seems he's not punishing a kid for his best, but just taking a revenge
Other
When you get a punishment, do you usually think it was fair and will help you become a better girl or boy?
Yes
No
When you do something wrong, do you feel bad with yourself?
Yes
No
What's you attitude towards lying to your parents?
I never lie to them
Sometimes I lie, every kid lies once in a while
I tell the truth more than I lie
I lie a lot
If you lied to your parents today, the how do you feel the day after?
I feel really bad with myself, it's wrong to lie to our parents
I feel bad, but every kid lies soemtimes
I don't mind, after all everybody, not only kids, lie a lot, we live in a world of lies
other
If you lied to your parents, then
I feel so bad that I end up apologizing and telling them the truth, no matter what it is
I feel bad but depending on what I did I don't tell the truth
I only tell the truth if my parents discovers I lied
Other
As for the promises you make to your parents
I always keep them
I keep my promises only if I know I'll be punished if I don't
If I break a promise, I feel so bad that I end up telling my parents I broke it and apologizing
Sometimes I break my promises, but I only admit it if my parents get to know I broke it
I usually break my promises if I know I'll get away with it
Other
what's your mom's attitude towards you lying and breaking promises?
She shows me it was wrong, ask me not to that again looking in my eyes and forgives
She gives me a punishment if she thinks it's necessary and then forgives with love
She says what I did was very bad, gives me a harsh punishment but forgives afterwards
She doesn't forgive and says she won't trust me anymore
Other
what's your dad's attitude towards you lying and breaking promises?
Hhe shows me it was wrong, ask me not to that again looking in my eyes and forgives
He gives me a punishment if he thinks it's necessary and then forgives with love
He says what I did was very bad, gives me a harsh punishment but forgives afterwards
He doesn't forgive and says he won't trust me anymore
Other
For girls: When you do something wrong and get punished, then how does the thing usually end? (select the options that fits your case)
with the happy end parents love: I apologize, cry, promise I won't do that again, and my mom or my dad hugs me, says she/he loves me, I'm a good girl, I'm forgiven and everything is over
I apologize, admit my punishment was fair, and promise I won't do that again
I feel I was victim of an injustice
Other
For boys: When you do something wrong and get punished, then how does the thing usually end? (select the options that fits your case)
with the happy end parents love: I apologize, cry, promise I won't do that again, and my mom or my dad hugs me, says she/he loves me, I'm a good boy, I'm forgiven and everything is over
I apologize, admit my punishment was fair, and promise I won't do that again
I feel I was victim of an injustice
Other
For girls:If you do something wrong and are forgiven (after a fair punishment or no punishment), then do you feel like hugging your mom or dad and crying?
Yes
No
For boys:If you do something wrong and are forgiven (after a fair punishment or no punishment), then do you feel like hugging your mom or dad and crying? (please, be honest, no problem if you're a boy and your answer is yes)
Yes
No
Although some conflicts, do you have a good relationship wit your mom?
Yes
No
Although some conflicts, do you have a good relationship wit your dad?
Yes
No
Select the options that apply to you
I'm a good son or daughter
Sometimes I do something wrong, but never did anything really bad
I have my own opinions and talk about them with my parents
I usually make fusses
Though sometimes i get mad at my parents, I love and respect them
I must admit that my parents know best
When my parents punish me, I know it's out of love and for my best, though I may not agree at first
I can't wait to leave home
My parents don't respect me
My parents love me but are too strict
Other
For girls: Suppose you did something wrong and your parents don't know yet. Then (select one or more options that suits your case)
I tell them and apologize. No matter what I did, I can't hide this from them
I feel really bad with myself, but if I think I'll get a really harsh punishment i'll try to hide it from them
It's better they know by me than by someone else
I do everthing to hide what I id from them. After all, everybody, not only teens, do that.
Other
For boys: Suppose you did something wrong and your parents don't know yet. Then (select one or more options that suits your case)
I tell them and apologize. No matter what I did, I can't hide this from them
I feel really bad with myself, but if I think I'll get a really harsh punishment i'll try to hide it from them
It's better they know by me than by someone else
I do everthing to hide what I id from them. After all, everybody, not only teens, do that.
Other
If your mom gives you a punishment, then :
She doesn't back off and keeps your punishment to the end exactly as she first established it, no matter if you apologize or plead
If she sees you have learned your lesson and won't do that again, she forgives and let you free before the time previuosly established
As you show you are learning your lesson, your punishment gets gradually lighter until she cuts it off
Other
If your dad gives you a punishment, then:
He doesn't back off and keeps your punishment to the end exactly as he first established it, no matter if you apologize or plead
If he sees you have learned your lesson and won't do that again, he forgives and lets you free before the time previuosly established
As you show you are learning your lesson, your punishment gets gradually lighter until he cuts it off
Other
This poll was created on 2005-02-22 14:51:52 by cool girl