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masturbation by diapered toddlers

4 year old daughter likes it

Posted by Barbara36 on 2007-01-23 10:27:01

Does the child hump something, or put hand right in the diaper?
My almost 4 year old daughter obviously likes to rub her diapered crotch on my leg when I sit on a chair or sofa. I only allow this in rare occasions. But I have seen her riding her big stuffed tiger (and sometimes her pillow) - it is VERY obvious what she is doing!

I do not spank her for $%!@ion. I think this is quite normal and will stop later.

I strictly prohibited her fumbling inside the diapers or taking them off by herself. One barebottom spanking two years ago was enough, to make this clear. But sometimes she rubs herself with the hands through the diapers. I do not allow this, nor at home nor in the public. I think, if I would allow this, it will become a habit, that will be difficult to cure later. I do not need to punish. I just say, that I don't like her to do this.

For punishment I use all the measures mentioned and more (timeout, take toy away, early to bed, no bedtime story, no talk, no dinner), depends on the situation. I spank only very rare, maybe two or three times a month. Mostly I spank over the diapers, bare bottom only for serious misbehaving. Spanking over the diapers is not really painful at all, it is more a ritual to make her feel my strong disapproval.


Posted by nigel27 on 2007-03-24 17:48:00

I can remember doing that

I can remember when I was about 3 or 4 years old being bathed and getting stiff and I didnt know what it was. I think I was being bathed by my aunt not my mom,and I was probably touching myself in the water. Well when she told me to stand up to be washed she saw it she was just washed me with a flannel including there which felt good, and thats why I remember it all these years later. She has a soft touch when she washed me and I always wanted her to bath me again.

Posted by AuntieJ on 2007-09-07 19:03:38

I wonder if your daughter still continues to do this now she is a little older? If any parent wants to discuss this type of behaviour feel free to email me at auntof2@hotmail.co.uk

Posted by AuntieJ on 2007-09-07 19:13:01



Posted by lillayla on 2007-10-19 22:48:39

My 4 yr old was forever rubbing herself on something or rubbing the front of her nappy whilst she was wetting it,the rubbing and wetting being associated with eachother.As I was trying to get her dry so she could go to pre school I found that pulling her plastic pants and nappy down and spanking on the offending part soon stopped that and the wetting so she now goes to pre school during the morning.Due to constipation issues no matter how long she is made to sit on her potty or the toilet she will not poo so In the after noon she has a nappy on and goes to bed for a short sleep and does a poo poo, at this time I do not stop her rubbing herself at the front through her nappy or 'riding' on her soft toys which she does quite vigourously whilst straining to poo. When she has finished and fallen asleep I go in and feel her nappy to she has done a poo and often find she has fallen asleep with her hand on her crotch. If she has done it I leave her to sleep and if not I wake her so she can have another go at doing a poo. When I change her I use baby oil on her privates and she always says more mummy and the same when she is getting her bed time nappy on and again she rubbs and rides her toys till she falls asleep.