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Justifiable Reasons To Cheat

We have our needs

Posted by Katie90_09 on 2011-11-05 00:42:54

I cheat - and I cheat often because I can and I have my needs. Why do most guys always want to do it in the same position and do the same things? It gets so boring. My fiance only likes to 69 which is fine every once in awhile but I need more excitement. It is so easy to find a sexual partner. Why would I want to deny myself such pleasure? It's not like I am denying my fiance of his needs. He still gets as much as he wants. He doesn't need to know that I mess around with his roommate and his brother when he's out. They don't tell him and neither do I. I can't be the only female who cheats for pleasure.

Posted by Elanie on 2011-11-06 02:40:45

I'm a 29 year old woman who has been married for 5 years. I cheat all the time because I really like sex and want a lot of different sexual partners. I haven't been caught. I always try to look attractive and alluring. When another man comes on to me, I'll try to have sex with him. I own a minivan type vehicle which has enough space in it to comfortable have sex and I often do it there. I always make the guy wear a condom and I'm on the pill. I usually cheat about 5 times a week. I still have sex with my husband nearly every day. I don't want to leave my husband. He's a great guy and makes a lot of money. He would be devastated he found out I had cheated even once.

Posted by Katie90_09 on 2011-11-06 19:28:22

I like the variety too. Five times a week seems pretty excessive to me if it is with different guys each time. Picking up strange guys can also have it's consequences. I used to hook up with guys from different social networking sites but I had too many bad encounters.

After a single date, one guy started stalking me. He showed up everywhere that I was at. I was afraid to go out in public with my boyfriend (now fiance) and I was afraid to go out alone. He eventually got arrested for stalking another woman.

Another guy found out that I had a serious boyfriend while I was going out with him so he blackmailed me. I had to pay him $$$ and had do some seriously degrading things for the enjoyment of him and his buddies to keep him from contacting my boyfriend.

So just be careful you don't end up in the same position because it could cause some harm to your marriage.

Posted by RAE7236 on 2011-11-11 19:41:56

did you ever think about talking to your man about what you want in sex? or do you just have no morals?

Posted by Katie90_09 on 2011-11-12 13:22:34

Wow. It sounds like someone had a mommy or daddy who cheated often now she wants to be a self-righteous b*tch. Get over yourself.

I'm very happy having multiple sex partners in my life. About half of my friends cheat on their husbands/boyfriends so it's not like I am the only one. Too many guys just focus on their own needs and they aren't willing to spicy it up with a little variety of positions, acts, etc. With all of the porn that guys watch, you would think that they would learn a few new tricks.