User: spankmeagain

OK Chris, I respect your devotion to the bible. I am a christian myself. but it seems to me that you are promoting more than a quick spanking made to sting and teach a quick meaningful lesson! Back in bible times children who sinned were taken like anyone else out back and stoned. The bible with its spare the rod spoil the child comments is saying that it is better for the child to get a caning than to be killed! and I would have to agree. But in this day and age a caning would legally constitute abuse. A paddling would not however, and I would not have a problem with a parent taking thier child over thier knee!

I also don't find anything in the bible that says "no pants". you leave these comments about uneducated people, yet show me one place where the bible says "take the kids pants off and split his skin with a cane for any offense known to man". I believe there is a time and place to spank your own child, and that is for a serious offense when the child is too young to understand reasoning. And it should take place in the privacy of your own home.

========== In Reply To ========== It has been a while since I came by this site. Now it seems to me that the Godless humanists claim to know what the Bible says. Well that is rot. The Bible is not some strange mistic book you can dip into whenever we need a profound statement.

The Bible is the word of GOD and is very precise on everything including discipline and the rod. Shall I down load the 60 or so references to say what rod discipline is. It is cane like a weavers cane and hurts anyone who is discipline by it. Sin grows in the child that is left to himself. We and they are sinners and are born into it. We remain unclean except in repentance or when we are discplined

Now for children that means one thing NO PANTS and the stripes from the rod. It has been this way from the beginning and no quack modern thinkers will change this. I will never withhold the rod from children. It is their need and without it they grow up blind and Goidless.

Wow, one person thinks spanking is abuse and another person is grateful for being caned. One person is a firm believer in the bible, and another thinks that "we should have progressed since then", and of course there is always dear philk who believes that the child spankings should be followed by reassurance of forgiveness and love, and that all girls should be spanked just for the sexual enjoyment a guy may get out of doing it.

Well. I believe spanking is both abuse and a good punishment. Young children generally are not at a level at which they can reason, and so it would be ridiculous to simply lecture them. They need to be taught consequences and sometimes a couple swats on their seat provides the necessary learning experience...however they do need to understand why they are being spanked, even if you are sure they already know. I also agree with the people who think parents should be creative...and I would not promote a spanking other than for more serious offenses...Gilbert and Sullivan wrote a song called "make the punishment fit the crime" and I think that it is important not to simply resort to a spanking because it is fast and easy! lol. I got spanked a few times when I was little, however my parents stopped around the time i turned 8 or 9, because as the child gets older, they are more open to being reasoned with, and can more clearly understand that thier priviledges are being taken away as a result of something they did. It would be ridiculous to take priviledges from a 4 year old though because essentially they have none!

as for the bible...well that isn't what this poll was really about. But I'll throw in my two cents and say that it is as meaningful today as it was back then. And it is most definately not just for jews.

In case anyone was wondering, I am an 18 year old girl.

Ok about that question where you asked about what to call the girl? dont go for those cheesy names...babe maybe if it was the right situation, but most girls would prefer you just to use their name...and trying to french them on the first date probably isnt the best idea ever either!

========== In Reply To ========== Ok... much less casual than that thing... How ya doin all. Well, hey since you're here, why don't you leave a comment for us guys. Guys... uh... I guess you can ask questions... maybe... whatever... Do anything.

========== In Reply To ========== YES MY HUSBAND IS 47 AND I AM 18 AND THAT IS HIS BELIEF JUST LIKE IM A KID IF I TALK BACK WE GO TO THE BEDROOM.MOST OF THE TIME ITS THE BELT BUT HE DOES HAVE A PADDLE AND IT REALLY HURTS.

--This is really wrong...i'm 18 and my dad isn't even 47...why the $%!@ are you even married to him?

I fully agree with you...i think its an entertaining and erotic fetish and parents who spank are generally living out a kind of fantasy that they are too embarrassed to admit they have. Kids should not have to suffer for this. my grandfather molested his own daughter, and when I was little he used to spank me as well as my cousins, very likely because he got sexual pleasure from it. my parents never liked it but niether of them had the guts to stand up to my grandfather although it only happened twice by him...once by my grandmother, who pulled down just my pants and gave me a spanking. I hated it and while I think that in the sexual, consensual context it is perfectally acceptable, I do not agree with spanking children and I believe that if you have to spank that you already have lost control over your children.

also, a note to all you creepy perverts who come on this site to get off from little kids or pretending to be little kids...i have seen unbelievably ridiculous stories on some of these sites and its moronic and irresponsible.

Anyone agree with me?

========== In Reply To ========== I have read the mesages and found some of them disturbing. No two kids are alike and will not respond the same way to the same methods.

I have only a 2 yr. old and not a teen, but I want everyone to consider this. Spanking contains a mystique that permiates adulthood. In the western world, it is probably practiced more as sexual play among concenting adults than for disciplining children and I think that proves that there is something sexual about the act. Just type in the word 'spanking' on any search engine and see the results. For every 'parenting' or 'discipline' site, you'll find ten sexually oriented sites, which goes to show how strongly it is ingrained in human sexuality. I too and facinated with this am beginning to explore this fetish with my wife.

The point is, adolecents are phisically sexually mature beings!!! In this day and age many adolecents still are as emotionally immature as they were before they hit puberty, (as well as many adults), but their bodies definatly are not. Therefore, even the most severe punishment can only be a combination of anger and vengeful-arousing torture combined with feelings of sexual pleasure or perhpas dysfunction. A teen may feel sexually violated (perhaps incested) over the act of baring his/her bottom before a same or opposite sexed parent. Although it may instill dread as a motivation for immediate behavioral change, the long term effects could be life-altering for the worse. Sure, if my dad told me he'd humiliate/demoralize and torture me if I didn't do X or Y, then I'd do X or Y, but I would never respect him, and I might not view him as a parent, but as a enemy to overcome.

Please take this into consideration. I'm not 100% against spanking, but I find that some of the ideas posted here are not constructive or nurturing discipline, but outright controlling mechanisms used by parents to compensate for their own low self-esteem ('macho'-ism) or to satsify a sub-concious sexual desire.

Well, I've said my part. All I ask if for you to think about it.

Good day.