User: Mr Explorer

I agree that what happened to you was bad, and I wouldn't blame you if you had grabbed the paddle off her and hit her back with it. However, spanking is a broad range of activities with many aspects to it. It can just be a bit of fun between consenting adults. I suspect that many people, even those who are not masochistic, would find the mild sting of a playful slap on the bottom quite pleasant (or at least not unpleasant).

Hip hop/rap comes under 'Urban'.

I gave the 35-45 age range because in general women of that age group seem to have reached their sexual peak, and are more likely to be sexually assertive/aggressive than women of other age groups. Younger women haven't yet reached their peak and older women are approaching/going through/have passed the menopause which can reduce their libido.

Also, I've recently been having fantasies about being spanked by women aged 35-45, though I enjoy being spanked by women of any age! (except possibly the really old).

At first, you could introduce the subject of spanking without directly asking him to do it to you. For example, you could ask him if he liked being at school, and then ask him if the kids were well-behaved there. Then you could ask him if corporal punisment was used at the school. Alternatively, you could ask him if he was spanked by his parents. That would get you onto the subject of spanking. From there you could somehow steer the conversation towards your own interest in being spanked.

I realise this reply to your query is late, so maybe you have already looked "elsewhere for your entertainment" by now!!

johnb181@lycos.com

'Well then what gives you the right to make poll "FOR IRISH-BORN ONLY"?'

Because that's the group of people whose views I was interested in.