User: mika

Thanks your interest, but discussing this matter´s details is still too difficult to me. I am still going on psychoterapy to built my man selfesteem again. That girl suspended from school and got punished, because my friend got permanent damages whithout any reason. I want only say that kicking in the testicles just for fun is always sexual violence againts guys. Zero tolerance!

Yeah, I know that many people think that hit in the groin is very funny and humorious. But I also know that really hard kick in the balls can cause infertility. This happened to the one of my best friend. After getting kicked the back sites of his testicles (epididymitis) injured so badly that his testicles can´t store sperms anymore. He needs some kind of biopsy to get children. And it is not sure at all that he can get childrens. Balls are really sensitive organs! So, handle them with care!

I am now 19 years old. Two and a half years ago one girl kicked me in the balls very hard during school. Kicking balls was like epidemic those days in my school. I hurt very badly. My balls swollen badly. I have to stay out of the school about one week beacause of my sore balls. Pain was terrible in many days. It takes a long time to trust girls again and make some nice relationships with girls. Now I have very nice girlfriend and really love on her. I have told to her that I have been testicle injury and we really hope that my sperm production is still ok. My girlfriend can´t understand girls who are kicking boys just for fun. Girls should understand that some day those boys who have been kicked in the balls are theirs or some others girls boyfriends and girls wants childrens with them.

========== In Reply To ========== Hey Kelly!

I have a lot of things to tell. First, I must say that I have been lived very difficult times lately. But in my part the case is almost over now. It was intended go to the court, but we never did that. That girl's (who kicked me) parents wanted to make a deal instead to go the court. Girl confessed that she abused on me and her's parents paid big sum of money to me for my pain and injuries. In reality, I was not very willing to go the court too,because of the publicity. I feeled that my manhood would be somehow publicly destroyed. My man selfesteem have already been down after those kicks. Whithout some succes in the ice hockey I would probably be depressed. That girl who kicked me finally excluded from my school, because of what she did to me and my friend. My friend\s case is anyhow still open, because his injuries were much more serious than mine. After being kicked his epididymis (I don´t know what it is in english), but I mean very vulnerable small parts which situated upper back of the testes, were injured badly. It is unclear do they recover at all and there is all the time infection in his epididymis. But anyhow I stand by him. Awful is that some younger guys makes some jokes about our case. After being kicked my relationship my parents is somehow changed. I feel that my father did not respect me so much that before. I have learned that somehow it is still strict tabu that not to hurt man\s genitals or at least man have to be ability protect his balls. I have spend much time to learn selfdefens technics to battle and the same time to protect balls. Bad thing is that I have lost my confidence to the girls. When talking to the girl, I am always aware that she might kick me. Now I must stop, I have talked already too much! And thanks your interest! It really helps to talk.

========== In Reply To ========== I also thought that it was just talk that girls kick balls as freely as they want to, until I was surprised and kicked in the balls. So, guys be aware! Kicking balls was like epidemic in my school last year. But now it is all over. We guy´s don´t allow that epidemic anymore!

Why does it seem like all of you girls kick balls as freely as you want to, and I can't get a single one I know too?? (no, I don't ask them to, but I do $%!@ them off enough)