User: kmz5

thank you for your reply. there are many considerations that keep people living together or loving each other beyond what i listed. this is why i asked about continuing a sexual relationship, rather than any relationship. the latter is far too complicated to quantify, i think. i at least would not attempt it.

haha! that's the funniest thing i've heard in a long time. most men are actually afraid of me, and one of my favorite pastimes is tormenting boyfriends, particularly my sisters'. and i have never had anyone consider me potentially lovable - at least as far as i know. i once enrolled in a human sexuality class that i had to drop due to a schedule conflict, but my interest was peaked. thus my questions. as it happens, my interest in sex and/or romantic relationships of any kind is purely academic. i am a professional student, and celibate.

in response to the other comment, i was looking not for a description of one's current girlfriend, but of those traits that are most likely to turn your head in any case. there is also the concept of designing the ideal appearance, and putting your significant other's mind and personality into that body. if people are going to design their babies, why not design their lovers? it is an exercise in abstraction more than it is a poll of real life conditions. i did, however, include options for those who cannot help preferring their current flame's attributes over anything else, for just such a case as yours. i am glad to hear that emotional considerations can override physical attributes. but, as the response shows, most everyone has an opinion on one thing or another. the excess hair one was voted pretty much a universal deterrent. then again, the audience that visits this site, let alone that takes this sort of poll, is hopelessly imbalanced. i cannot, in truth, infer anything from the responses. it was fun, though, and thanks for commenting.