User: kenny

WoW! Super post!========== In Reply To ========== The problem with spanking someone who's dead is that even if you do it on the bare bum, it's just not gonna work very well as a deterrent. Dead people of any age are pretty stubborn about what they will do and won't do. You'd think a good hard bare bottom spanking with a hairbrush would smarten them up, but that hasn't been my experience.

Thanks for the advice to ask someone in authority to really spank me when I deserved one. Since mom wont spank me, I ask my Uncle Steve. He told me how he & mom were spanked growing up but she never liked it. When I told him how I was caught smoking with Joe, he agreed that I needed the spanking too. He took me over his lap after telling me to drop my Levis. With me across his knees, he pulled down my briefs & gave me a spanking with his hand that really hurt more than the belt. He told me he loved me & this was for my own good & there would be more if I ever screwed up again. I thanked Uncle Steve for really caring.

My mom doesnt believe in spanking even though I sometimes deserve one. My friends have gotten spanked by their parent even when we mess up together but not me. I'm 14 & ask my buddy Joe to spank me last week with a belt & bare bottom just like he got it from his dad when we were caught smoking. It was my first spanking & it hurt but I felt I was guilty too & deserved the same punishment as Joe.

I'm 14 & my mom doesnt believe in spanking. All my friends get spanked when they mess up. I usually get grounded. My buddy Joe gave me my first spanking last week cause I ask him to. We got caught smoking & his dad gave him the belt bare. Thought I should get the belt bare too. It hurt but wish my mom would spank rather than ground me & it would be over.

I am paddled by my dad. It is not as frequent as when I was younger. I just turned 17. It only happens a few times in a whole year. I do not like it, but it is just the standard way of punishment. It is a very firm paddling, and it hurts - it leave a pink-red but for a day or so. It is not severe, or abusive. When its done, its over as is dad's anger. You said it was your uncle- that bothers me- a spanking from a dad is one thing- a spanking from anyone else raises some questions. A spanking from my dad is done by some one who I know loves me, and is a good and loyal friend.He has proved this over and over again. I guess I would ask myself- is the uncle a mean spirited person? DO you believe he has shown genuine love for you in other ways? I would have to ask- is this possibly something he likes too much. If its not a dad I would be concerned. If you ahve concerns tell someone who is an adult with some real authority to change things. Thats the advice of a peer. Do other guys feel as I do about your situation?