User: Johnny

Your Dad's a generous man. I'd have given you at least 25. A spanking should hurt alot. It should be hard and there should be plenty of it========== In Reply To ========== I got spanked by my dad. I lied about my chores which never got done. He took me tomy room. He made me bend over my bed and he spanked me with a belt. I got 10 swats really hard.

My boys have punishment panties, which are girls frilly panties. The have to wear them before and after getting a spanking. When they have their panties on they get called sissy boys. I make them wear them if we go out sometimes - it makes them better behaved.

I have two sons ages 15 and 12. they are great boys - I do not spank them often especially not now- but they each have been spanked in the last yr. I would never allow witnesses- even though the spankings are not brutal by any means. They do hurt! I none the less have always spanked them in the bedroom they share- as sometimes I wqas spanking both of them- or I never thought it did any harm for the brother to see his brother get a spanking, I would never spank in front of a relative or friend. I have a very good relationship with my sons. I think the best question a parent can ask is: "Do my children like to be with me- do they seek me out for company - for talks - advice? " If that is the case I do not think an infrequent, but deserved, spanking is going to change that healthy relationship. It has beeen that way with my dad and sure seems to be that way with my sons.

I was spanked occasionally growing up-- maybe every 3 or 4 months- by either mom or dad. Mom stopped spanking me at about 13 --I assume because of puberty- and simple respect for my not having to take my pants down in front of her. I did get a few spankings from my dad-- very few- til I was 16.They always hurt but were never brutal or harsh. I am sure the spankings are over- as I am finishing my jr. yr. I think my dad would find another punishment regardless of what I did at this age. I did not like to take a spanking at any age- but I think if your relationship is basically a good and trusting one with your parents- then an occasional spanking is not traumatic- at least it was not for me. My parents were and are very good parents-- if they were not good then I would resent a spanking at any age. I think most people would agree with me. thanks

I am a lucky man- I have had the same best friend since early childhood and we are past 50 now. We have been thru a lot of stuff together- and have had and continue to have a lot of fun and laughter. I have never asked him for anything that he did not do more than I asked. Ther is a poem by Oliver Wendell Holmes-- some of the lines are like this: "There is no friend like an old friend, who has shared our morning days, no smile is like his welcome, no homage like his praise" It is true.