User: HenryThomasson

There always does seem to be another spanking , ansd always when you least expect it. I hadn't been licked since the breakfast incident at the end of the summer. I though maybe I'd turned good, or Dad had gone soft. But I was wrong.

I missed dinner after eating a whole cauliflower Mom had prepared, and after they had eaten Dad came up and paddled my btre bottom. It hurt more than I was expecting and more than I remembered.

All my spankings? I hope so, but I don't think so.

Henry

Hi Joe

Joining a service club sounds a worthwhile thing to do that avoids some of the stranger iniiations of some of the frats. Maybe you didn't feel like geeks, but I bet some of the "greek" houses thought you were, or a bit nerdy. But if you had fun, parties, outings and so on, I guess you have the last laugh. Mt Dad always says to each his own, and I think that is what you are saying, and I think you are both right.

I wasn't saying YOU called me Harry or Hen. I don't think you have. But others have and I don't like it. Prince Charles son in England may be called Harry, but not me. So I just wanted to warn others off before they started.

Yes, I kmow those caught red handed moments too, when anything you say is going to make things worse, and so is keeping silent. I sometimes find myself standing in front of Dad in his den, trying to expain away things, and I know the excuse is flimsy, and I know Dad can see right through it, and when I run out of words he'll say something sarcastic like "have you finsihed," or "is that the best you can do", or even "you'll have to do better than that, Henry". and then I know, even if I dfdn't before, that he is going to lick me. And then sometimes he surprises me. I've steeled myself ready to hear those fateful words "go to your room", that always precede a licking, and then find Dad has something else in mind that wil hurt just as much but it is my ago that hurts more than my burtt. Sometimes I've wished Dad had just put the belt accross me and be done with it.

It is a whole different ball game between your buddies whipping you and Dad doing it. One is fun, even when it strings, and the other is not. One you is naked, and orobably hit with a hand, the other bare butt and probably with a belt. Funny that guys lick each other, when they hate bing licked by their Dad so much. Maybe it was playing games like this that my Dad learned how to spank a boys bottom (mine)

When Dad caught me on the landing I was heading for the stairs when suddemly the light went on, and I was in no mans land. I was in briefs, and my jeans shirt and shoes were on the ground outside my window. I though $%!@ would be safer not to get caught dressed in the house. Not that it made any difference. Dad took me back to my room, pulled down by briefs and sent me to bed with a stinging bottom.

Talk again soon, Joe

Henry

Hi Joe

Maybe if and when I go to college feshman initiation will be dun male (and I hope female) bonding, and not too stressful. What is the difference between a service club and and Greek House? I never heard of that before . Does it simply mean the Greek letters that some use to identiy themseves? I think some colleges make more of a deal on fraternities,. They haze you and initiate you, maybe lick you, but then they house you and look out for you. At the end of freshman year did you find 1 in 3 had dropped off your course? The only person I lnow who dropped out ater one year at a second grade uni, ended up with a scholarship at the very best Cool?

I don't like beeing called Hen or Harry, although that is what some guys try and call me. My parents and freinds know it is Henry, and the tone of voics tells m it I am trouble or not. I am not often in a lot of trouble, but when I am Dad knows how to warm up my butt mighty fast.and I might be at hs, but that doesn't stop me crying. Howcquick was your Dad to whip you? did he ever whip you first and ask questions seconD? And were you ever so quilty no questions were needed?

Where I live I'd be expected to call someone like you "sir" and I'd be in trouble if I didn't. I'd only say Mr Richardson to refer to you, Mr Richardson said...whatever" Guess some kids parents don't teach their kids proper respect. Any man in authoriiy is sir. At elementary school the head used to lecture us about it a couple of times each term, and the lesson stuck. i get it was like that for you too.

I think guys spanking their buddies is awesome, and once you been spanked in the nude by some good buddies a couple of timesand laid good swats accross their naked butts I think you are better friends. It is awesome spanking a friend. and even though it hurts, it is still uite exciting when it is you offering up a bare butt. It is funny howsome things never change. Can you imagine your Dad and the Dads of your friends doing that? Out on the back porch it was the hand, and I can't have been very old. The other time was last year, so i was 13, or nearly 13. I was about to start 8th grade. It was the right punishment at the right time.

I don't often get sent to bed without supper, but not going to bed at bedtime gets me early bed the next night. Iget ready for for bed and have dinner in my robe, then do straight to bed, lights out no talking, nothing. The only time I tried to sneak out I was caught on the landing and not believed when I claimed I was going to the bathroom. Didnt dare risk it again. Did you do that?

Talk to you soon

Henry

See Joe? You aren't the only one to overlook a message. It us easy to do.

Well, I survived hs initiation. But I heard that most college frats expect more than that. I also heard that at some colleges you almost HAVE to join a fraternity, and at others you don't. Were their frats at your college, did you need to pledge, and if you dfidn't need to join did you/didn't you. and why did you make that choice?

I haven't been pantsed in pe yet, but if your experinces are typical it is only a matter of time. Hell. if the boys in my class haven't been seeing me for years at middle school, they been seeing me naked three times a week since August. Those 10 grade bullies wanted to humiliate me where everyone would see. I don't know what would happen if they was caught. They wouldn't be swated, that is for sure, at least not at school.

Do they boys in your center see you as being in their side, or the other side? Guess it varies from boy to boy. Do they get to trust you? I think that would be crucial of they are going to learn from or through you. It sounds as though most of them are a lot like me,early teens, not quite sure what is going on or where they are going, hormons raging, and wanting so much to be treated like an adult when acting like a kid. Lucky kids like me got strong parents to support you through all that, set limits, and force you to structure your life. Some parents find they can't do that. I saw a program on tv about kids taken to "brat camp" in Utah, and parents taken as well, but in a different part of the desert, and I decded in many cases the problems was the parents, not the kids! You call the boys by their first name, or by a nickname? I had a freind we called maggot. That is what we were told his name was, and that is what he answered to. Nicknames are funny things. Like Mr Poll tags! How old were you when they stopped calling you buy your surname at school (if they ever did) and called you MISTER...whatever your surname is?

Yes, if a boy gets licked they are going to see you in the locker room before marks fade, and then they wnat every detail, so you tell them, and, if you are me, you dress it up a bit, nmend some of the bits about begging and crying, so it sounds better, and they think you some tough guy not a wimp or wus. A spanking from Dad was never safe,and always attracted attention and demanded inspection. Licking from buddies wheter payback, birthday bet or forfeit were awesome , like you say, but safe and fun. Well, of coure, is wasn't much fun it you was the one stripped bare being whcked, but it was fun and exciting for everyone else, and as you walked home with a smarting butt you knew that next time it would be someoe elsesturn.

Our lickings are mostly done in private, but I've also been licked on the back porch, and once when i had some frinds on the front porch. Dad knew they'd seen me naked enough for me not to be shy so it was bare butt, right there in front of everyone. Your Dad ever do that?

I've been sent to bed without supper a few times. First time I was licked for talking. But no pjs. I been sleeping naked since I was 10 or 11. At first thought Mom didn't know. When I askecd if it was okay she said "oh, I thoiught you already did!" Yes early bed without supper or early bed after dinner, and dead right. No messing about, no talking... you learn te easy way or the painful way?

Sounds like not much has changed in 10 years?

speak soon

Henry

Hi Joe

I agree. Initiation should be fun, but perhaps less fun for the initiates than for the others. At least, that is how it turnsedout. It isn#t that much fun having to make a fool of yourself, hear eveyone laughting at you, being embarrassed or having to pull your pants up in th school yard. That is what happened to me this week. Those kids who said "we'll get you frosh" did. I held on as I felt my boxers going too. Even though I kept them up I nearly cried. I probably would have if it hadn't been hs. Boys don't cry at hs. Not at mine, and I bet, Joe, not at yours? However bad things is you jus don't cry. I didn't feel excluded or rejected. Same sort of stuff was happening to all of us freshers, and that kind of made it easier to take. So nothing i couldn't take, and after some of the stories 'dI heard I had been quite scared. Was initiation at your school or even college fun? Fun for rveryone?

Your boys semed to have been dealt a bad hand, but even a bad hand can be a winner. But you have to work alot harder. Guess your boys aren't that different from me, maybe a bit harder, a bit tougher, maybe moe cynical, but otherwise very like me, but withiout the guidence and support and structure and love that I get at home. I said on my last post that I'd be lonely and scared without those things, and I think some, or at least some of your boys feel the same way. And some, I bet, wondering how they found themselvesin a place like that . Is tha how it seems to you? Good kids who have come of he rails, and you fdving them a chance to get back on? Good on you, Joe. a pat on the back. If I ever got there I'd hope someone like you was there to help me. Are your boys supposed to call you sir. Kandy told me that in court you always address the clerk who asks you if you are guilty as sir, as it createss a better impression with the jury or judge. I think it is only right to call a man like a teacher or counselor sir, and I think you fave a right to expect that. Are any allowed to call you by your first name, and to you call them by theirs? Dad said when he was at schools teachers were sir and kids were called bh their surname only. I get called Henry or Mister Thomasson, which is neat.

It was quite embaraasing. Some of the boys I hardly knew. Others were from my middle school. But even so, having your towel snatched away in fron of a class of half dressed boys in not something I would have chosen for myself. To hide my boner I turned y back, and then they all saw my still red butt, and then I had to expain everything to them. Like you said, there were afew "improvments"as I iold them, but they weren't really lies. Some if the boys were quite impressed, some were sympathetic, but some though if I was stupid enough to say stuff like that at the breakfast table what did I expect. Most of tho said their Dads would do the same. Or worse. And you said you would have done the same to me too. Like my housemaster said tiome the first time I was sent to him. After I told him what I had sone he said "no sympathy for that" Everyone else seems to agree I deserved that licking, and so whatever I think I have to accept that tere is never any excuse for SAYING something like that. Is that the lesson I was supposed to learn, Joe?

Dad used ti grab me by the ear more when I was younger, but grabbong you by the ear and twisting in make you squeal, and make i need to squeal before I get up to my room, I suppose. Did your Dad ever hurt you downstairs before sending you up to your room for a proper licking "(We'll finsh this off up in your room) Did you usually feel like coming down again after a licking io were you too sore, too humiliated, or grounded to your room?

ttyl

Henry