User: debbie

I would be totally embarrassed if I had to be examine in only my panties, like many of the guys on the poll who say they are examined in only their underpaants. I have always been given an exam gown to change into, even if I have to take my underwear off, bra and underpants. Is this really how guys get a physical ? I couldn't handle it.

Well Scott maybe, but I think it's still out of order and totally disgusting. I got smacked again just a few days ago for "my attitude" and with all the squirmimng I did on his lap he must have seen EVERYTHING between my legs. Six year olds don't think about what they have between their legs as to do with sex, 17 year old's do and that should be private!!!

========== In Reply To ========== When you live in someone else's house, rather your parents, or relatives, you have to live by their rules. Even if that means a bare spanking. In this case your Uncle spanked you for disobeying the rules and since you are under 18 he also had your parent permission. The spanking worked because you now obey the rules (showing respect.) Hopefully you will learn from this experience and use it in future relationships with others. Don;t be made at your Uncle, he is just trying to teach you a valuable lesson.

Thanks-it's nice to know there are people out there who don't just make fun of us because caning is the sorest thing I've ever experienced. Perhaps breaking a limb would be worse, but I wouldn't know, the worst I've done is twisted my ankle at ballet!

When I was last caned it was with my panties right off and I had to bend across the back of a large upholstered chair. Mum pulled me across by my arms so my face was in the chair seat and my feet off the floor (to stop my kicking against the floor and escaping I guess). Once the intense pain made me not care about the major embarrassment of having my big bare bum sticking up in the air, my legs fell apart. Only when the cane hit at the bottom of the buttocks and in particular, inbetween the thighs did it remind me to get my legs tightly again together but that's hard to hold in that position.

My parents are now living abroad because of my dad's work, so I'm staying in Scotland with my uncle and aunt until I've finished my schooling.

I have three younger cousins and two of them get smacked quite a lot by my uncle though he doesn't seem to ever use a cane, but he uses the belt when he's most angry with his eldest daughter (Emily, who's 14) but more often the slipper or hand. Amy's 12 and as far as I've seen only gets put across the knee and smacked with the hand because it doesn't take anything to get her crying, she's so soppy. Emily's dead pretty and quite grown up looking so really resents being put over her dad's knee for a smacking because she says she's being treated like a little child. She's a typical 14 year old, if you know what I mean-sassy and with tons of teen attitude and thinks her parents are stupid and ignorant, exactly as I was a couple of years ago! When her dad pulls her panties down and smacks her bare bottom her attitude sure changes fast, but she still resents it.

All us girls are made to wear short skirts (without tights) in the house and aren't allowed to wear any kind of jeans or trousers, except outdoors. So if we're in trouble, a little skirt is so easy to lift and panties left on give little protection, yet more often than not come down aswell and all feminine modesty is lost.

My other cousin, Edward, who's about 9ish, never seems to get smacked, the little swot, but I think he enjoys seeing either of his big sisters get it. Afterwards I've seen him smiling to himself with the "I told you so" smug look on his face whilst one of his sisters is getting her bottom warmed up and desperately wriggling her bum like mad to disperse the sting. Sometimes I'd like to punch him in the face for being the little know it all!

Because my mum told uncle to discipline me if I got out of hand he's already smacked me once, over his knee and also with my panties down, which considering I turned 17 a few weeks ago is totally out of order, but I couldn't stop him although I pleaded him not to. He only used his hand, but sssmacked me for ages, and I was crying floods of tears before he was half way through.

I think here in the UK, parents can smack their kids to hell and back if they can 'justify' it as a means of discipling them and my bum has been more than just bright red on a few occasions.

Is it just my imagination or do girls get smacked more than boys when they get into their teens?

I recently turned 17 and am living with my uncle and aunt because my parents have gone to work in Germany and want me to finish my education here in the UK.

I was smacked as a child and my parents gave instructions to my uncle and aunt to continue smacking me if I misbehave because they know I hate it so think it's a very effective way of disciplining me. My uncle already smacks my younger cousins and recently he took my parents' request (because he said I was continually being disobedient), put me across his knee and smacked me with my panties off until I was crying hard. My bottom was very red and sore afterwards and I felt incredibly embarrassed having my female privacy taken away.

I hated him for it but because I don't want it to happen EVER again, I behave exactly the way they want now. Was he wrong to do that to me at my age, please tell me?

I still smoke and I GET ALLOT OF PADDLINGS

========== In Reply To ========== My parents whipped my sisters butt because she was smoking about once a week. Sometimes for a long time and she just kept smoking. i am 14 and get spanked allot for smoking with a paddle on bare behind and i still smoke