User: allenabq

I'm a 34 y.o. gay male, thus I didn't answer the poll. But I found the results fascinating. I never would have guessed that so many straight men would enjoy kissing another guy, but in a way it makes sense, especially since most expressed that desire toward other males they were close to.

And no, I don't believe that kissing, even French kissing and enjoying it, between two males automatically makes them gay. Kissing is just a really good feeling that is even better with someone you feel close to. I think all humans have an instinctive need to express intimacy in a variety of ways that don't involve actual sex. The tragedy is that men are not only raised to reject those impulses, but to actively discourage them in other men. I think there are a lot of emotionally unfulfilled straight guys out there who crave close, personal, intimate and yet non-sexual friendships with other men but don't have them for fear of being labeled gay. It's too bad. They are missing so much.

Eye-opening poll. Kudos to the person who posted it.