Your post sounded just to erotic to ignore!! You obviously enjoy controlling your man, while not having those vulnerable hanging balls between your legs. So your man cannot use your balls to "level the playing field". So he HAS NO CHOICE but to conform to what YOU want! My balls normally hang way down too. Would you please be willing to share a few examples of how you control your man with his hanging balls. I'd LOVE to show my steady girlfriend how to do the same to me. Pleeeeze?!!
IÃÂll be very happy to help you any way I can! I highly respect a feminist like you, because you donÃÂt want to punish or persecute men, you simply want equality and fairness for females, which is what I want too!
After teaching self-defense to girls for so long, especially emphasizing the weakness of our balls and the natural advantage that gives females, itÃÂs bound to feel kind of awkward for you to now teach boys self-defense. But donÃÂt worry! -- YOU CAN DO IT!!
Kelly, I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say ÃÂIt is fun for me a female to make fun of a boy who has balls, and to let young girls know of their natural advantage.ÃÂ My female cousin, Jenny, has also had fun teasing boys about those ÃÂalways in the wayÃÂ balls hanging between their legs. Just like you, she NEVER abuses boysÃÂ balls in any way either, but like all girls, she frequently just finds a lot of humor in this little ÃÂjokeÃÂ that nature has played on only males. She took a self-defense class about a year ago, and she and her female classmates and female teacher had lots of laughs during the ÃÂtesticlesÃÂ part of the self-defense lessons. They used a sock with rubber balls in it to mimic a guyÃÂs balls, and each girl took a turn ÃÂbeing the guyÃÂ by hanging the sock between their legs. When they got hit in the balls (sock), the girls even collapsed to the floor holding their balls and crying out in pain, as they FAKED the pain that in reality they would NEVER know! At one point when my cousin was wearing the sock and crying out in pain, another girl in the class came up to her, ripped the sock out of her pants, and threw it on the floor. My cousin smiled and replied to her ÃÂOH THANKS!! THAT FEELS MUCH BETTER NOW!!ÃÂ, much to the amusement of the whole class. I donÃÂt blame you or my cousin at all! If I were a girl, I have NO DOUBT I would enjoy doing the same thing!! Balls are just plain FUNNY!! (except of course when youÃÂre a guy who just got his balls hit!!)
Of course, while youÃÂre teaching boys, you definitely DONÃÂT want to give away any tips that you give to girls about defending themselves against guys!! But if a boy is attacked by a guy, thereÃÂs certainly NO reason at all why he shouldnÃÂt take advantage of his attackerÃÂs balls in the same way a girl would. Boys naturally know MUCH BETTER than girls just how much a blow to the balls hurts and stuns a guy! So if it gives a boy a chance to escape an attacking male, he should definitely go ahead and drill the guy in his balls, ...AND THEN RUN!!!
To help with the uneasiness you have about teaching this to boys, be sure to make a little teasing joke about it at first. IÃÂd say something like this: ÃÂOK guys. Now that weÃÂve talked about taking advantage of your attackerÃÂs weak points, I need to point out that male attackers have one more weak point that female attackers donÃÂt have. That obviously is the testicles. Now IÃÂve heard a blow to the testicles causes excruciating pain, but you guys would know what thatÃÂs like much better than I would! (Smile!) Can I have a volunteer? NO, NO, donÃÂt worry, IÃÂm not gonna kick any of you boys in your delicate testicles!ÃÂ After this bit of humor, then go on with the serious part about hitting an attacker in his testicles.
Kelly, I would highly recommend that you do this: ONLY BRIEFLY mention to the boys that testicles can be used during self-defense, when the opportunity presents itself to them. DonÃÂt DWELL on testicles like you should during the girlsÃÂ self-defense class. Instead, stress other areas of vulnerability to the boys ÃÂ like the nose, throat, stomach, shin, knee, and instep. BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT TEACH THE BOYS HOW TO DEFEND AGAINST A BLOW TO THEIR TESTICLES, BECAUSE THIS WOULD BE A GREAT DISSERVICE TO FEMALES, SINCE THEY ARE TAUGHT TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF TESTICLES IN SELF-DEFENSE!!! So you donÃÂt want a lot of boys/men learning how to block a shot to their testicles which could literally SAVE A FEMALEÃÂS LIFE!!
Now, Kelly, in regard to you question to me: ÃÂDoes the hand under the cup really work. Although I teach this, can a girl really grab the balls under the cup?ÃÂ
My answer: Unfortunately, I cannot say that it will work in all cases. It really depends on the individual guy and the type of cup device heÃÂs wearing. With some cups itÃÂs more difficult to slip your hand into it than with other cups, and a woman/girl may only have a very short moment of time in which to try to do this. On a video, I have seen a demonstration of a female self-defense instructor slipping her hand under a cup on a manikin and grabbing some fake balls. But if a female tries this and then discovers that she canÃÂt get her hand under the cup enough to grab the balls, she should IMMEDIATELY grab the entire cup and start jerking it up and down AS HARD AS SHE CAN! This definitely works, because as the edge of the cup slides hard across the balls, it compresses the balls against the guyÃÂs groin, which is GUARANTEED to produce the kind of stunning pain a female needs to make her escape from him.
Remember that although grabbing balls IS very effective in stopping a guy, it is generally more difficult to execute than a good, hard, swift blow to the balls. In a real attack, a woman/girl may have only a second or two to take advantage of a guyÃÂs balls, so if one thing doesnÃÂt work, she has to have an alternate plan already in mind. And a woman/girl CANNOT let a cup stop her from taking advantage of her male attacker!! Grinding the edge of the cup over a guyÃÂs balls WILL send excruciating pain throughout his groin, and on top of that, it will usually cause the balls to pop out of the cup, making them very vulnerable to any grabbing or hitting, if the woman/girl finds that necessary to escape.
I hope this helps. Please let me know how the class with the boys goes. And feel free to ask me any other questions you want.
I do want to say a few more things to help women in self-defense techniques.
During an attack, if a female sees a good opportunity to punch, elbow, knee, or kick her male attacker in the testicles, SHE SHOULD DEFINITELY TAKE THE SHOT to enable her to escape!! But a female should NOT rely ONLY on hitting a guyÃÂs testicles in order to escape. There are three good reasons why she shouldnÃÂt:
1) She may not get the opportunity to get a good shot at his testicles.
2) Sometimes, when a female victim tries to kick a male attacker in his testicles, he could block her kick or even catch her leg with his arms and flip her onto the ground.
3) DonÃÂt forget, itÃÂs also possible that her attacker could be a strong female, who of course does not even have testicles to hit!
So itÃÂs very important for a female being attacked to look for any opportunity to strike her attacker in order to stun him (or her, if itÃÂs a female attacker). There are various techniques to catch an attacker off-guard and stun him, such as a hard blow to his nose, or to his stomach, or you can flip him to the ground and run.
Also itÃÂs a proven fact that an attacker tends to flee when his female victim shows a willingness to ÃÂcause troubleÃÂ. By ÃÂcause troubleÃÂ, it means she yells out to draw public attention to the attacker, and she looks like she is willing to fight off her attacker. Attackers tend to prey on easy victims. They donÃÂt like to mess with feisty, uncooperative victims. Of course, if the victim shows you a knife or gun, then itÃÂs best not to try to physically fight him. Just do as he says, so that he doesnÃÂt use his weapon on you. But the majority of attackers donÃÂt even carry knives or guns.
Another thing, if a male stranger approaches a female in a vulnerable location (like when sheÃÂs walking to her car on the street or a parking lot), she should be very wary of him. He will probably present himself by asking her if sheÃÂd like to go somewhere for a drink or a bite to eat, or he might claim that heÃÂs lost or that his car has broken down. She should do the following:
1) She should WARN HIM NOT to come close to her. Make him keep a safe distance away. If he merely wants directions to somewhere heÃÂs going or if he truly is having car problems, then he can converse with her AT A SAFE DISTANCE AWAY. ThereÃÂs NO NEED for her to let him get close to her!!
2) If he ignores her warning and comes close to her anyway, then she should very suddenly kick him hard in the testicles, and immediately jump into her car and drive away!! If he actually wanted to attack her, then he GOT EXACTLY WHAT HE RICHLY DESERVED with a kick to his testicles. If he merely wanted directions or help with his car problems, then he still got what he deserved for not honoring her request that he stay a safe and reasonable distance away from her, since he is a stranger. So a female NEED NOT feel any guilt about hurting a guy in this situation, because any way you look at it, ITÃÂS HIS OWN FAULT!!!
3) She should take extra precautions the next time she has to go to her car alone, especially in the same location where she previously kicked her attacker. Obviously she needs to make sure he doesnÃÂt return to take revenge on her!
Three weeks ago I was waiting to get a root canal in my dentistÃÂs office, when I read a womenÃÂs self-defense article in some magazine (I just canÃÂt remember which magazine now). This article introduced a new type of stun-gun that was just starting to be test-marketed in limited areas. It uses electrical shock, just like a regular stun-gun. But this special stun-gun is a low-voltage stun-gun. The low-voltage causes only minor pain when used on most parts of the human body. But because the male testicles are so sensitive, this low-voltage still causes stunning pain in the testicles. And the real beauty of this is that when this same low-voltage stun-gun is used on the vulva, it causes ONLY MINOR PAIN!!
We know that a hard blow to the vulva hurts almost as much as a hard blow to a guyÃÂs testicles. But too often we overlook the fact that testicles are not only hanging out in an easier-to-reach position than the vulva, but testicles will also produce stunning pain EVEN WITH A LIGHT BLOW to them, while a vulva will suffer ONLY MINOR PAIN from a light blow. This same principle applies to the new low-voltage stun-gun. The low-voltage is STILL MORE THAN ENOUGH to cause stunning, temporarily paralyzing pain to the testicles, thus allowing a female to escape her would-be male attacker. But the low-voltage CANNOT cause similar pain when used on a vulva. So if men get a hold of these new stun-guns, they cannot use them against women. Only women will be able to use them against men.
The article even included a photo of 25 male college students and 25 female college students participating in a formal demonstration of this new low-voltage stun-gun, conducted by the manufacturer. The male students aimed their stun-guns at the femalesÃÂ crotches and the female students aimed their stun-guns at the malesÃÂ crotches. Then all students were given the order to fire their stun-guns. All 25 male students collapsed in pain and could not get up to walk for 45 seconds to 2 minutes, depending on the individual male. But all 25 female students remained standing (and in this case, they just couldn't help laughing at the amazing results!)
Of the 25 female students:
1) 4 females claimed they felt sharp pain, but were still able to walk right away. (These females obviously had very sensitive cl!torises.)
2) 14 females claimed they felt only minor pain, and could walk with ease.
3) 7 females claimed that not only did they feel no pain, but the stun-gun actually pleasantly stimulated their vulvas. Of course, the manufacturer was quick to point out that they are NOT recommending that this stun-gun be used for that purpose!
This new stun-gun, which must be used within 15 feet of the attacker, gives women/girls two obvious advantages over would-be male attackers:
1) Women/girls can inflict stunning pain on the testicles WITHOUT the risk of letting the attacker get close to her.
2) This stun-gun cannot be used against her, even if her male attacker is also carrying one.
This stun-gun allows women/girls to truly take full advantage of the male-only natural weakness (testicles) WITHOUT any risk to the women/girls!! Hopefully this new stun-gun will be available to ALL women/girls VERY SOON!!
ThatÃÂs extremely good advice, kellycat!!
A girl/woman simply should not and cannot allow a male attacker to have his way merely because heÃÂs wearing a cup for protection! A female should learn exactly how to slip her hand under the cup and grab his balls.
IÃÂm convinced that God/Nature gave us males extremely sensitive, hanging balls to allow a female the opportunity to escape an attacking male, who is normally physically stronger than the female he is attacking, especially in upper body strength. ItÃÂs her chance to ÃÂsteal the advantageÃÂ during an attack by a male, and get away unharmed.
I would add this too. If a female for any reason cannot get her hand under the cup, she should simply grab the cup and pull up on it as hard as she can. This will hopefully rake the bottom edge of the cup over the maleÃÂs balls, allowing her to escape. But if this still doesnÃÂt work, then the female should just jerk the cup up and down as hard as she can until it produces the temporarily paralyzing pain that she needs to make her escape. This will also usually cause the balls to pop out of the cup, which gives the female the opportunity to grab them and squeeze, if he still hasnÃÂt let go of her.
Keep up the great work, kellycat! Someday it could actually save the lives of those females that youÃÂre teaching!
Maybe I am just too nice, ..and maybe too optimistic too! But I can ALWAYS hope! lol
I think you're definitely right on about the leaf! He He! (Sorry tj, it's a girl thing!)