A childminder looks after kids for their parents.
Anyone can be on a strap or lead if the person in charge of them wants to do so.
My childminder puts older children in a harness and reins. One girl of 11 had started to get well developed breasts, but the lady insisted on her wearing a leather harness to go out. She put it on her and when she did the strap up the girl tried to pull it away from her breasts and said it was hurting them. The lady slapped her legs and felt the strap on her breasts and said it was too loose rather than too tight. She then pulled the back and tightened it by one hole and said if she pulled it loose again she would tighten it by two holes.
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Kids get the harness until 12, then its a wrist strap. If it fitted, I think she would still use it. Out of the 2 I prefer the wrist strap.
Would she put a harness on you instead if she had a harness that fit you? Which do you dislike more, the wrist lead or harness?
I'm in UK. I don't like it but she's very strict with me. I don't run away but sometimes pull it to the full length and she pulls me back. I get slapped at the time and often caned at home.
We have to call our childminder miss and put our hand up before speaking. I'm 15 and its embarrasing putting my hand up if i'm outdoors with her.