Cues for Sexual Desire
The following survey seeks to gain a better understanding of what activities and experiences motivate women to engage in sexual activities, alone and with a partner. It was once thought that women engaged in sex as a result of physical or biological desire. We now know that women are motivated to engage in sex by many factors. What motivates women to engage in sex is very much an individual experience. There is no right or wrong answer. The results will only tell us the prevalence and intensity if the different motives.
This survey was published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine Vol.3 No. 5 2006 It is a diagnostic tool for helping to diagnose Hyposexual Desire Disorder (HSDD).
You can access a questionnaire on TheSexualGoddess.com website that will help you determine if you experience low sexual desire by clicking here.
Instructions: Different factors cause different people to desire sexual activity (e.g., intercourse, kissing, oral sex, petting, masturbation). Use the survey below to indicate what the likelihood is that each of the following factors or cues would lead you to desire sexual activity.
Feeling a sense of love with a partner
|
8% (4) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
10% (5) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
15% (7) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
30% (14) |
4 Very likely |
|
34% (16) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing/talking with someone intelligent
|
10% (5) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
17% (8) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
36% (17) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
17% (8) |
4 Very likely |
|
17% (8) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching an erotic movie
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
4% (2) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
17% (8) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
26% (12) |
4 Very likely |
|
45% (21) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Smelling pleasant scents (e.g., perfume, cologne, shampoo, aftershave)
|
10% (5) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
19% (9) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
28% (13) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
30% (14) |
4 Very likely |
|
10% (5) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching or listening to other people engage in sexual behavior/activity
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
17% (8) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
23% (11) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
15% (7) |
4 Very likely |
|
39% (18) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Your partner expresses interest in hearing about you
|
8% (4) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
30% (14) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
34% (16) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
17% (8) |
4 Very likely |
|
8% (4) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing/talking with someone famous
|
60% (28) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
21% (10) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
8% (4) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
6% (3) |
4 Very likely |
|
2% (1) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Being in a hot tub
|
17% (8) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
26% (12) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
36% (17) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
13% (6) |
4 Very likely |
|
6% (3) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Experiencing emotional closeness with a partner
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
6% (3) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
23% (11) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
39% (18) |
4 Very likely |
|
23% (11) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Asking for or anticipating sexual activity
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
2% (1) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
13% (6) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
51% (23) |
5 Extremely likely |
45 voters have answered this question.
Talking about the future with your partner
|
23% (11) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
26% (12) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
32% (15) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
13% (6) |
4 Very likely |
|
4% (2) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing/talking with someone powerful
|
60% (28) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
13% (6) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
13% (6) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
6% (3) |
4 Very likely |
|
6% (3) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Having a romantic dinner with a partner
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
21% (10) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
32% (15) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
17% (8) |
4 Very likely |
|
21% (10) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching someone engage in a physical activity (e.g., sports)
|
41% (19) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
28% (13) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
26% (12) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
4% (2) |
4 Very likely |
|
0% (0) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Talking about sexual activity or "talking dirty"
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
8% (4) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
13% (6) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
45% (21) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Laughing with a romantic partner
|
10% (5) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
17% (8) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
30% (14) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
13% (6) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Sensing your own or your partner's wetness, lubrication, or erection
|
2% (1) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
0% (0) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
10% (5) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
10% (5) |
4 Very likely |
|
76% (35) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Feeling protective of a partner
|
26% (12) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
15% (7) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
32% (15) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
15% (7) |
4 Very likely |
|
10% (5) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Hearing your partner tell you that he or she fantasized about you
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
4% (2) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
6% (3) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
56% (26) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Giving or receiving a massage
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
6% (3) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
28% (13) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
26% (12) |
4 Very likely |
|
32% (15) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Your partner is supportive of you
|
15% (7) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
10% (5) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
41% (19) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
19% (9) |
4 Very likely |
|
13% (6) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Dancing closely
|
8% (4) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
8% (4) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
21% (10) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
36% (17) |
4 Very likely |
|
23% (11) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing someone who is well dressed or "has class"
|
23% (11) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
21% (10) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
26% (12) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
15% (7) |
4 Very likely |
|
13% (6) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Feeling a sense of commitment from a partner
|
10% (5) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
6% (3) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
32% (15) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
32% (15) |
4 Very likely |
|
17% (8) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Being in close proximity with attractive people
|
13% (6) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
21% (10) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
23% (11) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
13% (6) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Touching your partner's hair or face
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
17% (8) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
41% (19) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
19% (9) |
4 Very likely |
|
17% (8) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
You experience genital sensations (e.g., increased blood flow to genitals
|
2% (1) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
2% (1) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
8% (4) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
37% (17) |
4 Very likely |
|
48% (22) |
5 Extremely likely |
45 voters have answered this question.
Seeing/talking with someone wealthy
|
65% (30) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
15% (7) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
8% (4) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
8% (4) |
4 Very likely |
|
2% (1) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Your partner does "special" or "loving" things for you
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
8% (4) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
36% (17) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
30% (14) |
4 Very likely |
|
19% (9) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing someone act confidently
|
19% (9) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
21% (10) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
39% (18) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
15% (7) |
4 Very likely |
|
4% (2) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Having a sexual fantasy (e.g., having a sexual dream, daydreaming)
|
4% (2) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
0% (0) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
4% (2) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
28% (13) |
4 Very likely |
|
63% (29) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Flirting with someone or have someone flirt with you
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
10% (5) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
39% (18) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
23% (11) |
4 Very likely |
|
19% (9) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching a romantic movie
|
19% (9) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
32% (15) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
30% (14) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
8% (4) |
4 Very likely |
|
8% (4) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Seeing a well toned body
|
13% (6) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
19% (9) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
28% (13) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
26% (12) |
4 Very likely |
|
13% (6) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Feeling a sense of security in your relationship
|
8% (4) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
15% (7) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
23% (11) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
43% (20) |
4 Very likely |
|
8% (4) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching a sunset
|
26% (12) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
36% (17) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
28% (13) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
6% (3) |
4 Very likely |
|
2% (1) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Reading about sexual activity (e.g. pornographic magazine)
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
6% (3) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
21% (10) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
23% (11) |
4 Very likely |
|
41% (19) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Whispering into your partner's ear/having your partner whisper into your ear
|
6% (3) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
13% (6) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
28% (13) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
32% (15) |
4 Very likely |
|
19% (9) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Watching a strip tease
|
10% (5) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
17% (8) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
23% (11) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
32% (15) |
4 Very likely |
|
15% (7) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
Feeling protected by a partner
|
13% (6) |
1 Not at all likely |
|
26% (12) |
2 Somewhat likely |
|
21% (10) |
3 Moderately likely |
|
32% (15) |
4 Very likely |
|
6% (3) |
5 Extremely likely |
46 voters have answered this question.
This poll was created on 2006-11-18 20:30:41
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