Wedding Night Non-Virgins Women Only
1. Are you male or female?
| 7% (2) | Male (sorry - this poll is for women only; please do not answer any more questions). | |
|---|---|---|
| 92% (26) | Female. |
28 voters have answered this question.
2. How many times have you been married?
| 22% (6) | Never (please do not answer any more questions on this poll). | |
|---|---|---|
| 70% (19) | Once (please continue with the poll). | |
| 7% (2) | Two or more times (please continue with the poll). |
27 voters have answered this question.
3. When did you lose your virginity?
| 88% (23) | Before I got married (please continue with the poll). | |
|---|---|---|
| 7% (2) | Wedding night or shortly thereafter (please do not answer any more questions on this poll). | |
| 3% (1) | Still a virgin (please do not answer any more questions on this poll). |
26 voters have answered this question.
4. How old are you?
| 14% (4) | Under 21. | |
|---|---|---|
| 48% (13) | 21 to 29. | |
| 7% (2) | 30 to 39. | |
| 18% (5) | 40 to 49. | |
| 11% (3) | 50 to 59. | |
| 0% (0) | 60 or older. |
27 voters have answered this question.
5. At what age did you voluntarily lose your virginity to a boy/man?
| 44% (11) | 15 or under. | |
|---|---|---|
| 16% (4) | 16. | |
| 8% (2) | 17. | |
| 12% (3) | 18. | |
| 4% (1) | 19. | |
| 8% (2) | 20. | |
| 4% (1) | 21. | |
| 0% (0) | 22. | |
| 0% (0) | 23. | |
| 0% (0) | 24. | |
| 4% (1) | 25. | |
| 0% (0) | 26 or older. |
25 voters have answered this question.
6. How old were you the first time you got married?
| 7% (2) | Under 18. | |
|---|---|---|
| 23% (6) | 18. | |
| 19% (5) | 19. | |
| 0% (0) | 20. | |
| 11% (3) | 21. | |
| 3% (1) | 22. | |
| 7% (2) | 23. | |
| 7% (2) | 24. | |
| 7% (2) | 25. | |
| 3% (1) | 26. | |
| 3% (1) | 27. | |
| 0% (0) | 28. | |
| 0% (0) | 29. | |
| 3% (1) | 30 or older. |
26 voters have answered this question.
7. How much time elapsed between your voluntary loss of virginity and your first marriage?
| 0% (0) | Less than one month. | |
|---|---|---|
| 0% (0) | One month to six months. | |
| 4% (1) | Six months to one year. | |
| 8% (2) | One year to two years. | |
| 21% (5) | Two years to four years. | |
| 30% (7) | Four years to seven years. | |
| 30% (7) | Seven years to ten years. | |
| 4% (1) | More than ten years. |
23 voters have answered this question.
8. Why did you choose to have sex before your first marriage?
| 25% (6) | I believe that sex between a man and a woman is a natural act. | |
|---|---|---|
| 4% (1) | I wanted to test my partner for sexual skill and compatibility. | |
| 8% (2) | Peer pressure. | |
| 33% (8) | Spur of the moment thing. | |
| 8% (2) | I did not want to but my boy friend did. | |
| 20% (5) | I believed that sexual experience before marriage is necessary. |
24 voters have answered this question.
9. With how many boys/men did you voluntarily have sex before your first marriage (include your first husband if you had sex before marriage with him)?
| 19% (4) | One. | |
|---|---|---|
| 14% (3) | Two. | |
| 14% (3) | Three. | |
| 0% (0) | Four. | |
| 0% (0) | Five. | |
| 9% (2) | Six. | |
| 42% (9) | Seven or more. |
21 voters have answered this question.
10. What is the current status of your first marriage?
| 82% (19) | Still married and still living together. | |
|---|---|---|
| 4% (1) | Married, but separated. | |
| 13% (3) | Divorced. | |
| 0% (0) | He has since passed away. |
23 voters have answered this question.
11. If you are still married to your first husband, for how long have you two been married?
| 42% (8) | Less than five years. | |
|---|---|---|
| 15% (3) | Five years to ten years. | |
| 5% (1) | Ten years to fifteen years. | |
| 10% (2) | Fifteen years to twenty years. | |
| 15% (3) | Twenty years to thirty years. | |
| 10% (2) | More than thirty years. |
19 voters have answered this question.
12. In retrospect, considering everything that has happened to you and your first marriage do you think you should have had sex before your marriage?
| 65% (15) | Yes. | |
|---|---|---|
| 26% (6) | No. | |
| 8% (2) | Uncertain. |
23 voters have answered this question.
13. A nineteen year old female comes to you for advice. She and her boy friend have been dating for six months. Both are virgins. For various reasons they can not get married for at least three years. She asks for your advice on the two of them having sex together. What do you tell her?
| 9% (2) | Nineteen yrs and 6 months are too young/too short. It is OK to have sex B4 marriage, but wait. | |
|---|---|---|
| 59% (13) | It is OK if you use birth control. | |
| 27% (6) | Wait until you are married. | |
| 4% (1) | See what your boy friend thinks. |
22 voters have answered this question.
14. How many times have you been to church in the last fourteen days?
| 52% (13) | None. | |
|---|---|---|
| 4% (1) | Once. | |
| 16% (4) | Twice. | |
| 8% (2) | Three times. | |
| 4% (1) | Four times. | |
| 16% (4) | Five or more. |
25 voters have answered this question.
