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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. When we first got together, about a week to a week and a half later, we found out his ex was pregnant and no one was sure who the father was because she had been cheating on him for most of the time. The baby has been born and it is my boyfriends, he told me "the baby changes nothing between us, you are still my girlfriend, I just have a baby now." The first 3 or 4 days I was very, very confused and I didn't know what to do. I suggested several things to Robbie and he really wouldn't listen to me. I know that there are two parts of life, the fact part and the feeling/emotional part, right now I feel like my boyfriend is listening to his feelings side and not the facts.... please help me decide what I should do with this situation.
what should I do?
dump him, he has to take care of his kid and he can't do it with you or any other woman except his kid's mom around.
sit back and let him do what he has to do. If he still wants you and you make him happy then don't ruin it... he needs some kind of pleasure in his life
leave, at least for a little while, let him be with his kid and if he wants you back then take him back
confusing, next
What should he do?
he and this girl don't seem like good parents... they smoke, (she) drinks and he likes going to parties. They're also very, very young. The mother just having turned 21 and still trying to get through her senoir year of high school and him being 18, 19 in August..... that baby should go to another home.
he needs to focus on his kid and nothing else, an outside relationship is out of the question
his kid comes before relationships but if he wants to stay with you or have a different girlfriend then the mother then as long as the kid is the most important and comes first then he can do whatever he wants.
he should stay with you because no one thought the kid was his... let the stupid thing that is the kids mother take care of it all by herself
confusing, next.
what should we do? before the baby (and even now) we plan on getting married within the next few years. Now it's more him then me.. it makes me smile but I'm still doubting.
get married. you could be a step-mom.
I already said you should break up, that means no marriage
who knows...your whole situation is confusing
This poll was created on 2008-02-16 15:59:18 by rockprincess1022