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Parenting survey 2008

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This is a survey of parents attitudes and behaviors. Only 3 questions must be answered gender age and country. Please leave comments at end.
What is your gender
male
female
What is your age
How many boys
How many girls
Age of oldest
Age of youngest
Partner situation
married
remarried
married with stepchildren
single parent (no partners)
live in partner/other
Who is the primary caregiver, person at home or with custody
mother
father
other person
shared equally
Does your home have age appropriate reading material for your children
no material
used books
new books
books and magazines
read to children on regular basis (10 or under)
both of the last
Unnecessary question, should be dropped !
Have you taught your children to pray
yes
no
done by spouse
done by granparents/other
Unnecessary question, should be dropped !
Do your children know the ten commandments
Unnecessary question, should be dropped !
yes
no
not sure
Have you talked with your children about smoking
Yes I have, I am not a smoker
Yes I have, however I smoke
No
Have you talked with your children about using drugs
No
Yes, and I do not use drugs
Have used drugs but warned children it is not healthy
I do not believe drugs have harmful effects
Have any of your children reached puberty
Yes
No
If you answered the last question Yes did you talk with them about sex two years earlier
Yes
No
It wasn't necessary, they have sex education at school
Have you talked to your children about how parents procreate
Yes
No
Have you talked to your children about relations and dating
Yes
No
Have you discussed menarche/spermarche with your daughter/son
Yes
No
Have you had any occassion to discuss self stimulation with your daugher/son
Yes, when pre-pubescent
They are too young
Yes, when pubescent
No I/we don't believe it appropriate
No I/we don't believe it is moral.
Are there any guns in your household.
Yes
No
Yes and they have been taught firearm safety and shooting
Yes and we have the guns locked and control the keys
Does your family practice regular worship
We attend service weekly
We worship at least once every two months
We attend service on major holy days
My children will atend services on their own or with friends/neighbors
We do not partake in worship activities
Have you talked with your children about birth control
Yes with boys
Yes with girls
Yes with my daughters and sons
Some but not all, not age prepared
Check this box only if you only specify abstinence
Do your children buy their own clothes
Boys do
Girls do
Both boys and girls do
What does your son wear to swim (if no boys skip). For more than one answer or child complete comments
shorts
speedo style
baggies
thong
short wetsuit
What does your daughter wear to swim (no girls skip) More than one answer or child complete comment
One piece suit
Two piece bikini
Two piece less revealing
Thong suit
Favors swimming topless
Do you let your child swim with others nude.
Yes with same sex
yes with mixed sex
They go to lake, river to skinny dip
Yes, we support them in accepting their bodies, or have gone with them to nudist camps resorts
No this is not what we approve of
Yes they skinny dip at a pool
What is your nudity/modesty policy at home (choose one best answer)
Boys see boys in underwear
Boys see boys naked
Girls see girls in underwear
Girls see girls naked
Boys and girls see each other in underwear
Boys and girls see each other naked
Only girls see boys naked
Only boys see girls naked
Do any of the kids sleep nude
Boys do 12 yrs or less
Boys do teens
Girls do 12 yrs or less
Girls do teens
Boys and girls do pre-teen
Boys and girls do teen
If you have both boys and girls do they share a room
No
Yes, they are still young
yes because our living space is very limited
Yes they are in puberty
Teens, they have a partition
Do any of your children share the same bed
Yes boys do
Yes girls do
Brothers and sisters do, prepubescent
Brothers and sisters do, pubescent
brother and sister girl much older
brother and sister boy much older
Do you let your children go to sleepovers
Yes
No
Do you have sleepovers in your house
No
Yes, single gender
Yes, mixed gender
When other parents host sleepover when they are home, do you send your children when they are
Single gender
Mixed gender (other than friends siblings)
Do you engage in any sexual activities with household member under 21
No
Yes
No but spouse/partner does
No but other extended family does
Parents with teens (otherwise skip to next) when kids bathe, sleep, which do you appreciate more
Seeing teen boys in underwear
Seeing teen boys in nude
Seeing teen girls in underwear
Seeing teen girls in nude
For parents with young (otherwise skip) during bathing and sleeping, which do you appreciate more
Seeing girls in underwear
Seeing girls in nude
Seeing boys in underwear
Seeing boys in nude
Which style of underwear do the boys wear
N/A
string bikini
low rise mini briefs/slips
thong
boxers
briefs with fly
jockstrap
boxer briefs
other
Which style of underwear do the girls wear
full brief
bikini panties
boxer
boy shorts
thongs
slips
other
Mom or dad, have you restricted your boys/girls underwear choice
yes girl was too risque
yes boy was too risque
yes I have restricted both son and daughter
no their choices have been fine
How do you approach alcohol in your home
teens may drink alcohol at home but not out (still below age)
teens may not drink
one or more of my kids have been treated for sobriety
myself or other parent have issues with personal alcohol consumption
My teens may NOT attend parties with alcohol
What is the biggest concern you feel you have the least control over
school work
alcohol/drug usage
automobile issues
sexual conduct - disease
sexual conduct - pregnancy
homosexuality
suicide
lying
stealing
friends
Name something you did at their age that you prefer they not need to deal with
Which other person(s) have the most significant impact on you children ex. other spouse, aunts uncles, teacher grandparents, friends parents, etc
When you have parenting issues and need to talk with an adult who do you consult ?
Have you talked with your children about homosexuality
yes
no
spouse addressed this
son/daughter talked with teacher, pastor, other adult
other
How many days a week does your whole family eat together
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
Are you proud of your sons/daughters developing sexual maturity
Yes
No
I have some concerns
Do your children overall have a good body self image
I believe my boys and girls feel good about their bodies
Yes my boys feel good about their bodies
Yes my girls feel good about their bodies.
No, they experience weight / eating issues
No they experience atyhletic/non-athletic anxieties
If your daughter/son got into a serious life altering issue who would you turn to for help
another parent
my parent(s)
clergy
spouse
Other
What ideas would you like to share with others regarding this survey ?
What is your internet usage
We have internet computer in one place in house
We have internet use in multiple places in house
There is no internet at our home
Are there computers in bedrooms
Boys have internet in there room
Girls have internet in their room
Do you let boys look up expressly sexual material
yes
no
we use a filter
we have no control, computer is in their bedroom
we don't have boys
Do you let girls look up expressly sexual material
yes
no
we use filter
we have no control, PC is in their room
we don't have girls
As a parent I have been swimming nude with my children
mother with preteen girls
mother with teen girls
father with preteen girls
father with teen girls
mother with preteen boys
mother with teen boys
father with preteen boys
father with teen boys
boys and girls teen
boys and girls preteen
my children have swam nude with me
father with girls
mother with boys
father with boys
mother with girls
all the above
What is your homeland continent
N America
S America
Asia
Arctic
Antarctic
Europe
Africa
What is your country of origin
If you talked with your daughter/son about masturbation
encourage them to explore feelings when alone
tell them it is to be done in privacy
allow them to practice with siblings//friends
show them on yourself
demonstrate on them
have strong religious reservations
tell them it is wrong
I have done none of these
Do you have a PC camera, or digital camera that children use
Boys do in their room
Girls do in their room
Both boys and girls can make digital photos
Where can the kids be nude in your house (check all that apply)
Nowhere except bathroom
bedroom
kitchen
den/living room
basement
anywhere is ok
Anywhere including out of doors
Can your boy(s), girls(s) have friends nude at your house
yes preteen boys in bedroom
yes preteen boys in public
yes teen boys in bedroom
yes teen boys in public
yes preteen girls in bedroom
yes preteen girls in public
yes teen girls in bedroom
yes teen girls in public
all the above
I dont allow nudity in bedrooms
I don't allow nudity in public
If children do not have friends nude at your house, can they visit your neighbors who do
no, we do not approve
yes teen boys do
yes teen girls do
yes preteen boys do
yes preteen girls do
When you take them to shop, do they try on underwear in store off rack
no
girls do
boys do
both do when we go to store
If your boy requested girls underwear would you agree
no, he never asked
no, He asked but we told him he couldn't
yes we've agreed and buy for him
never asked but we found some in chest, gymbag, bedroom
Would your kids share underwear when theirs are in wash
no
yes its not uncommon
girls would wear boys but not other way
boys would were girls but not other way
both boys and girls will swap underwear
Do(es) your son(s) prefer wearing girls jeans
yes
no
Does your son sag his pants
no, he doesn't
he has in past, but we don't approve
yes we allow it, his friends do as well
Have you ever camped with your kids
no
yes, but they don't care for it
sure they think its great
Mom (or Dad) if you handle the laundry what are your teen sons personal habits
ejaculates mostly on his sheets
usually ejaculates in his underwear
ejaculates into socks
regularly uses a cleaner method, baggie, tissues, condom, shower - If you find little evidence check here
has done most all these
If you walked in on your son/daughter when they were self stimulating, you
excused yourself without words
apologized or smiled then left
told him to stop
would stay in room as on other occassions
About your son does he purchase condoms
yes is open about it
no there is no eveidence
no he has told me
yes he tries to hide them
Does your daughter have or use sex aids as phallus, vibrator etc
not that I know
yes I have seen it
yes, she acknowledges it.
yes she is in college or older
Does your daughter take the pill
yes
no
don't know
I suspect so, but it has not been discussed
If your son or daughter came to talk about a friend who was gay, did you take time to discuss it.
yes
no
Do you think your son or daughter has a question whether they are homosexual
No
My son worries he might be
My daughter worries she might be
My son has told me he is gay
My daughter has told me she is gay
My response was caring
My response was surprised
My response was cautious
My resonse was supportive
My response was upsetfull
Have your teenage children ever gotten a massage or requested one
yes at home
yes at an office
no
if they paid they were allowed to get a therapeutic massage
if I/we thought it would benefit their health we would pay for service
If circumstances would warrent it, would you encorage your children to practice stress reduction
no
yes would encourage meditation
yes would encourage prayer group
yes would encourage massage
yes would set up counseling
yes would encourage yoga or martial arts
yes would encourage swimming exercise, team sport
How many girls on sports team
How many boys on sports team
Give total number of children in your family
On a scale of 1-5 rate this poll. 1) not that useful) 5) very insightful, or somewhere in between
Should anythig else be included here or altered ? Would you leave a part out ?
This poll was created on 2008-02-04 02:24:45 by quickdry