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v10: Which male character traits do women value most?

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1. One word/characteristic per post if your idea for a post has more than one word, try VERY hard to think of a single word that describes what is on your mind. That means NO SENTENCES, and NO repeats, and no long lines listing qualities separated by commas.

a. Separate character traits by line breaks only.

2. Make sure you go thru the entire list BEFORE posting; if the word you were thinking of is the same or similar to a word that's already on the list, cross it out and think of something else. I REPEAT: DO NOT REPEAT... TRY TO THINK OF SOMETHING ELSE IF THE WORD/CHARACTERISTIC YOU WERE GOING TO ADD IS ALREADY ON THE LIST!

3. Yet another important rule (trust me, it's worth it!): Avoid trying to add traits that people have almost NO control of whatsoever. This includes things such as 'white,' 'Chinese', 'tall,' 'small ears,' 'not a burn survivor.'

4. The word/characteristic must make sense when placed after the phrase "He is... " Or "He should be... " If that's impossible, then at it must at least make sense after "He... "/"He has... "/"He has a... "

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Below are the survey questions:


1. Please use words (or the check boxes if this is the form version) to say the male traits that are most important in a bf (boyfriend / husband) in your opinion.
If this poll is by email, please only use words to answer, not numbers. Use or add to the list at the end of this document.

2. Which of the following traits do you least or definitely NOT look for in a bf (boyfriend / husband)?
Use the list at the end of this document.

3. Please report repeats.
For example, are there any words that we have listed twice or are too similar to other words on this list?
If so, what are they? Use the list at the end of this document.

4. What about the opposite of repeats?
We'd like to split up combined traits that are on a single line separated by slashes (/) that you think should be on separate lines because they're too different from each other.
Please tell us which of the following trait numbers have traits that are in slashes that we should separate on a different line.

5. Are there any traits on this list that you think we should DELETE? Please state which ones.

6. Please add to this list.
What is a character trait that we have not listed here that you look for in a boyfriend or husband?
Refer to the list at the end of this document to make sure what you are trying to add is not already listed.

7. Feel free to suggest other changes, such as using different words.

8. What should we change to make this post more attractive/interesting/popular/exciting/EASY TO UNDERSTAND?
Please name all the changes you can think of to improve this info collection system.
1. Please use words (or the check boxes if this is the form version) to say the male traits that are most important in a bf (boyfriend / husband) in your opinion. If this poll is by email, please only use words to answer, not numbers. Use the list at the end of this document.
1. Respectful/ Respecting the other's independence
2. Trustworthy/ Honest/sincere/Truthful
3. Caring
4. Loving
5. Romantic/ Chivalrous/polite/gentlemanly / Charming / Kind/sweet /warm
6. Clean/hygienic/ Smells good
7. Ambitious
8. Smart/intelligent /academic/Educated/ Intellectually stimulating / Clever / W
9. Dependable
10. Emotionally stable
11. Considerate
12. Sensitive
13. Compassionate
14. Attentive/a good listener/ knowing how to listen
15. Athletic/Sporty
16. Confident
17. Open-minded
18. Comfy in own skin
19. Pleasing disposition
20. Stylish/dresses well / not afraid to dress how he wants (girl clothes on the
21. Flattering
22. Moral/ Good moral character
23. Spontaneous/random
24. Trusting
25. Well-groomed/short hair
26. Selfless
27. Well mannered
28. Musical
29. Muscular /Fit/Strong/Healthy /toned
30. Not clingy
31. Tough
32. Passionate
33. Empathetic
34. Hardworking
35. Refined
36. Uncouth/not always nice/able to call one a bitch
37. Willing and able to learn
38. Pierced
39. Active
40. Enthusiastic
41. Loyal/faithful/not a player / one with fidelity
42. Able to dance
43. Objective
44. Flirty, but only with one person
45. Wears a suit sometimes
46. Knowledgeable
47. Enjoys/good at cooking / housekeeping
48. Nerdy
49. Outdoorsy
50. Good financial prospect
51. Fair
52. Unusual
53. Talented
54. Deep
55. Environmentalist
56. Thoughtful
57. Accepting
58. Appreciative
59. Cheerful/ Smiling
60. Tattooed
61. Clean/organized
62. Independent
63. Giving
64. Outgoing
65. Realistic
66. Courteous
67. Positive
68. Responsible
69. Brave / Courageous
70. Talkative
71. Employed/job
72. Laid back
73. Faithful
74. Sociable (has a group of friends)
75. Mature
76. Giving eye contact
77. Supportive / Encouraging
78. Sweet/warm
79. Creative / artistic
80. /kids/marriage/family/ Wants large family
81. Helpful
82. Writes
83. Nice teeth (clean and straight)
84. Values family and friends/ Desire for home/ Home-oriented
85. Will powered
86. Hardworking
87. Not addicted to anything/ Doesn't drink/Doesn't smoke
88. Open
89. Likes animals
90. Clean shoes
91. Understanding
92. Generous
93. Good looking/hot/cute/smiling/sexy / handsome/physically attractive/gorgeous
94. Funny/witty/humorous/can make one smile
95. Wears contact lenses
96. Disciplined
97. Can keep a conversation / Conversationalist/skilled at communication / Inter
98. Goal setting
99. Shaggy hair
100. Nice
101. Sarcastic
102. Patient
103. Peaceful
104. Similar religion
105. Can take a joke
106. Sharp
107. Adventurous/fun/exciting/exciting personality
108. Clean-shaven
109. Fatherly
110. Classy
111. Helpful
112. Focused
113. Clear complexion/ clear skin
114. Non-controlling
115. Nice tummy / Ripped abs / Slim
116. Affectionate
117. Someone who is himself and does not try to be what everyone else wants him
118. Shy
119. Someone who is not afraid to show their feelings
120. Nice eyes
121. Opinionated similarly politically
122. Nice back
123. Nice arms
124. Isn't loud
125. Doesn't party all the time / Serious at the right times
126. Someone who likes to take it slow, NOT rush the relationship/looking for a
127. Brevity
128. Chaste / virgin
129. Does NOT swear
130. Thin, any waist size below 30"
131. Between 5'6" and 5'9"
132. Pale skin
133. A cute laugh
134. Sexy hair
135. A nice package
136. A top
137. Aggressive
138. Skilled socially
139. Idealistic
140. same religious or spiritual outlook
141. Good housekeeper
142. Good cook
143. Frugal
144. Musical
2. Which of the following traits do you least or definitely NOT look for in a bf (boyfriend / husband)? Use the list at the end of this document.
1. Respectful/ Respecting the other's independence
2. Trustworthy/ Honest/sincere/Truthful
3. Caring
4. Loving
5. Romantic/ Chivalrous/polite/gentlemanly / Charming / Kind/sweet /warm
6. Clean/hygienic/ Smells good
7. Ambitious
8. Smart/intelligent /academic/Educated/ Intellectually stimulating / Clever / W
9. Dependable
10. Emotionally stable
11. Considerate
12. Sensitive
13. Compassionate
14. Attentive/a good listener/ knowing how to listen
15. Athletic/Sporty
16. Confident
17. Open-minded
18. Comfy in own skin
19. Pleasing disposition
20. Stylish/dresses well / not afraid to dress how he wants (girl clothes on the
21. Flattering
22. Moral/ Good moral character
23. Spontaneous/random
24. Trusting
25. Well-groomed/short hair
26. Selfless
27. Well mannered
28. Musical
29. Muscular /Fit/Strong/Healthy /toned
30. Not clingy
31. Tough
32. Passionate
33. Empathetic
34. Hardworking
35. Refined
36. Uncouth/not always nice/able to call one a bitch
37. Willing and able to learn
38. Pierced
39. Active
40. Enthusiastic
41. Loyal/faithful/not a player / one with fidelity
42. Able to dance
43. Objective
44. Flirty, but only with one person
45. Wears a suit sometimes
46. Knowledgeable
47. Enjoys/good at cooking / housekeeping
48. Nerdy
49. Outdoorsy
50. Good financial prospect
51. Fair
52. Unusual
53. Talented
54. Deep
55. Environmentalist
56. Thoughtful
57. Accepting
58. Appreciative
59. Cheerful/ Smiling
60. Tattooed
61. Clean/organized
62. Independent
63. Giving
64. Outgoing
65. Realistic
66. Courteous
67. Positive
68. Responsible
69. Brave / Courageous
70. Talkative
71. Employed/job
72. Laid back
73. Faithful
74. Sociable (has a group of friends)
75. Mature
76. Giving eye contact
77. Supportive / Encouraging
78. Sweet/warm
79. Creative / artistic
80. /kids/marriage/family/ Wants large family
81. Helpful
82. Writes
83. Nice teeth (clean and straight)
84. Values family and friends/ Desire for home/ Home-oriented
85. Will powered
86. Hardworking
87. Not addicted to anything/ Doesn't drink/Doesn't smoke
88. Open
89. Likes animals
90. Clean shoes
91. Understanding
92. Generous
93. Good looking/hot/cute/smiling/sexy / handsome/physically attractive/gorgeous
94. Funny/witty/humorous/can make one smile
95. Wears contact lenses
96. Disciplined
97. Can keep a conversation / Conversationalist/skilled at communication / Inter
98. Goal setting
99. Shaggy hair
100. Nice
101. Sarcastic
102. Patient
103. Peaceful
104. Similar religion
105. Can take a joke
106. Sharp
107. Adventurous/fun/exciting/exciting personality
108. Clean-shaven
109. Fatherly
110. Classy
111. Helpful
112. Focused
113. Clear complexion/ clear skin
114. Non-controlling
115. Nice tummy / Ripped abs / Slim
116. Affectionate
117. Someone who is himself and does not try to be what everyone else wants him
118. Shy
119. Someone who is not afraid to show their feelings
120. Nice eyes
121. Opinionated similarly politically
122. Nice back
123. Nice arms
124. Isn't loud
125. Doesn't party all the time / Serious at the right times
126. Someone who likes to take it slow, NOT rush the relationship/looking for a
127. Brevity
128. Chaste / virgin
129. Does NOT swear
130. Thin, any waist size below 30"
131. Between 5'6" and 5'9"
132. Pale skin
133. A cute laugh
134. Sexy hair
135. A nice package
136. A top
137. Aggressive
138. Skilled socially
139. Idealistic
140. same religious or spiritual outlook
141. Good housekeeper
142. Good cook
143. Frugal
144. Musical
3. Please report repeats. For example, are there any words that we have listed twice or are too similar to other words on this list? If so, what are they? Use the list at the end of this document.
1. Respectful/ Respecting the other's independence
2. Trustworthy/ Honest/sincere/Truthful
3. Caring
4. Loving
5. Romantic/ Chivalrous/polite/gentlemanly / Charming / Kind/sweet /warm
6. Clean/hygienic/ Smells good
7. Ambitious
8. Smart/intelligent /academic/Educated/ Intellectually stimulating / Clever / W
9. Dependable
10. Emotionally stable
11. Considerate
12. Sensitive
13. Compassionate
14. Attentive/a good listener/ knowing how to listen
15. Athletic/Sporty
16. Confident
17. Open-minded
18. Comfy in own skin
19. Pleasing disposition
20. Stylish/dresses well / not afraid to dress how he wants (girl clothes on the
21. Flattering
22. Moral/ Good moral character
23. Spontaneous/random
24. Trusting
25. Well-groomed/short hair
26. Selfless
27. Well mannered
28. Musical
29. Muscular /Fit/Strong/Healthy /toned
30. Not clingy
31. Tough
32. Passionate
33. Empathetic
34. Hardworking
35. Refined
36. Uncouth/not always nice/able to call one a bitch
37. Willing and able to learn
38. Pierced
39. Active
40. Enthusiastic
41. Loyal/faithful/not a player / one with fidelity
42. Able to dance
43. Objective
44. Flirty, but only with one person
45. Wears a suit sometimes
46. Knowledgeable
47. Enjoys/good at cooking / housekeeping
48. Nerdy
49. Outdoorsy
50. Good financial prospect
51. Fair
52. Unusual
53. Talented
54. Deep
55. Environmentalist
56. Thoughtful
57. Accepting
58. Appreciative
59. Cheerful/ Smiling
60. Tattooed
61. Clean/organized
62. Independent
63. Giving
64. Outgoing
65. Realistic
66. Courteous
67. Positive
68. Responsible
69. Brave / Courageous
70. Talkative
71. Employed/job
72. Laid back
73. Faithful
74. Sociable (has a group of friends)
75. Mature
76. Giving eye contact
77. Supportive / Encouraging
78. Sweet/warm
79. Creative / artistic
80. /kids/marriage/family/ Wants large family
81. Helpful
82. Writes
83. Nice teeth (clean and straight)
84. Values family and friends/ Desire for home/ Home-oriented
85. Will powered
86. Hardworking
87. Not addicted to anything/ Doesn't drink/Doesn't smoke
88. Open
89. Likes animals
90. Clean shoes
91. Understanding
92. Generous
93. Good looking/hot/cute/smiling/sexy / handsome/physically attractive/gorgeous
94. Funny/witty/humorous/can make one smile
95. Wears contact lenses
96. Disciplined
97. Can keep a conversation / Conversationalist/skilled at communication / Inter
98. Goal setting
99. Shaggy hair
100. Nice
101. Sarcastic
102. Patient
103. Peaceful
104. Similar religion
105. Can take a joke
106. Sharp
107. Adventurous/fun/exciting/exciting personality
108. Clean-shaven
109. Fatherly
110. Classy
111. Helpful
112. Focused
113. Clear complexion/ clear skin
114. Non-controlling
115. Nice tummy / Ripped abs / Slim
116. Affectionate
117. Someone who is himself and does not try to be what everyone else wants him
118. Shy
119. Someone who is not afraid to show their feelings
120. Nice eyes
121. Opinionated similarly politically
122. Nice back
123. Nice arms
124. Isn't loud
125. Doesn't party all the time / Serious at the right times
126. Someone who likes to take it slow, NOT rush the relationship/looking for a
127. Brevity
128. Chaste / virgin
129. Does NOT swear
130. Thin, any waist size below 30"
131. Between 5'6" and 5'9"
132. Pale skin
133. A cute laugh
134. Sexy hair
135. A nice package
136. A top
137. Aggressive
138. Skilled socially
139. Idealistic
140. same religious or spiritual outlook
141. Good housekeeper
142. Good cook
143. Frugal
144. Musical
4. What about the opposite of repeats? We'd like to split up combined traits that are on a single line separated by slashes (/) that you think should be on separate lines because they're too different from each other. Please tell us which of the following trait numbers have traits that are in slashes that we should separate on a different line.
1. Respectful/ Respecting the other's independence
2. Trustworthy/ Honest/sincere/Truthful
3. Caring
4. Loving
5. Romantic/ Chivalrous/polite/gentlemanly / Charming / Kind/sweet /warm
6. Clean/hygienic/ Smells good
7. Ambitious
8. Smart/intelligent /academic/Educated/ Intellectually stimulating / Clever / W
9. Dependable
10. Emotionally stable
11. Considerate
12. Sensitive
13. Compassionate
14. Attentive/a good listener/ knowing how to listen
15. Athletic/Sporty
16. Confident
17. Open-minded
18. Comfy in own skin
19. Pleasing disposition
20. Stylish/dresses well / not afraid to dress how he wants (girl clothes on the
21. Flattering
22. Moral/ Good moral character
23. Spontaneous/random
24. Trusting
25. Well-groomed/short hair
26. Selfless
27. Well mannered
28. Musical
29. Muscular /Fit/Strong/Healthy /toned
30. Not clingy
31. Tough
32. Passionate
33. Empathetic
34. Hardworking
35. Refined
36. Uncouth/not always nice/able to call one a bitch
37. Willing and able to learn
38. Pierced
39. Active
40. Enthusiastic
41. Loyal/faithful/not a player / one with fidelity
42. Able to dance
43. Objective
44. Flirty, but only with one person
45. Wears a suit sometimes
46. Knowledgeable
47. Enjoys/good at cooking / housekeeping
48. Nerdy
49. Outdoorsy
50. Good financial prospect
51. Fair
52. Unusual
53. Talented
54. Deep
55. Environmentalist
56. Thoughtful
57. Accepting
58. Appreciative
59. Cheerful/ Smiling
60. Tattooed
61. Clean/organized
62. Independent
63. Giving
64. Outgoing
65. Realistic
66. Courteous
67. Positive
68. Responsible
69. Brave / Courageous
70. Talkative
71. Employed/job
72. Laid back
73. Faithful
74. Sociable (has a group of friends)
75. Mature
76. Giving eye contact
77. Supportive / Encouraging
78. Sweet/warm
79. Creative / artistic
80. /kids/marriage/family/ Wants large family
81. Helpful
82. Writes
83. Nice teeth (clean and straight)
84. Values family and friends/ Desire for home/ Home-oriented
85. Will powered
86. Hardworking
87. Not addicted to anything/ Doesn't drink/Doesn't smoke
88. Open
89. Likes animals
90. Clean shoes
91. Understanding
92. Generous
93. Good looking/hot/cute/smiling/sexy / handsome/physically attractive/gorgeous
94. Funny/witty/humorous/can make one smile
95. Wears contact lenses
96. Disciplined
97. Can keep a conversation / Conversationalist/skilled at communication / Inter
98. Goal setting
99. Shaggy hair
100. Nice
101. Sarcastic
102. Patient
103. Peaceful
104. Similar religion
105. Can take a joke
106. Sharp
107. Adventurous/fun/exciting/exciting personality
108. Clean-shaven
109. Fatherly
110. Classy
111. Helpful
112. Focused
113. Clear complexion/ clear skin
114. Non-controlling
115. Nice tummy / Ripped abs / Slim
116. Affectionate
117. Someone who is himself and does not try to be what everyone else wants him
118. Shy
119. Someone who is not afraid to show their feelings
120. Nice eyes
121. Opinionated similarly politically
122. Nice back
123. Nice arms
124. Isn't loud
125. Doesn't party all the time / Serious at the right times
126. Someone who likes to take it slow, NOT rush the relationship/looking for a
127. Brevity
128. Chaste / virgin
129. Does NOT swear
130. Thin, any waist size below 30"
131. Between 5'6" and 5'9"
132. Pale skin
133. A cute laugh
134. Sexy hair
135. A nice package
136. A top
137. Aggressive
138. Skilled socially
139. Idealistic
140. same religious or spiritual outlook
141. Good housekeeper
142. Good cook
143. Frugal
144. Musical
5. Are there any traits on this list that you think we should DELETE? Please state which ones.
1. Respectful/ Respecting the other's independence
2. Trustworthy/ Honest/sincere/Truthful
3. Caring
4. Loving
5. Romantic/ Chivalrous/polite/gentlemanly / Charming / Kind/sweet /warm
6. Clean/hygienic/ Smells good
7. Ambitious
8. Smart/intelligent /academic/Educated/ Intellectually stimulating / Clever / W
9. Dependable
10. Emotionally stable
11. Considerate
12. Sensitive
13. Compassionate
14. Attentive/a good listener/ knowing how to listen
15. Athletic/Sporty
16. Confident
17. Open-minded
18. Comfy in own skin
19. Pleasing disposition
20. Stylish/dresses well / not afraid to dress how he wants (girl clothes on the
21. Flattering
22. Moral/ Good moral character
23. Spontaneous/random
24. Trusting
25. Well-groomed/short hair
26. Selfless
27. Well mannered
28. Musical
29. Muscular /Fit/Strong/Healthy /toned
30. Not clingy
31. Tough
32. Passionate
33. Empathetic
34. Hardworking
35. Refined
36. Uncouth/not always nice/able to call one a bitch
37. Willing and able to learn
38. Pierced
39. Active
40. Enthusiastic
41. Loyal/faithful/not a player / one with fidelity
42. Able to dance
43. Objective
44. Flirty, but only with one person
45. Wears a suit sometimes
46. Knowledgeable
47. Enjoys/good at cooking / housekeeping
48. Nerdy
49. Outdoorsy
50. Good financial prospect
51. Fair
52. Unusual
53. Talented
54. Deep
55. Environmentalist
56. Thoughtful
57. Accepting
58. Appreciative
59. Cheerful/ Smiling
60. Tattooed
61. Clean/organized
62. Independent
63. Giving
64. Outgoing
65. Realistic
66. Courteous
67. Positive
68. Responsible
69. Brave / Courageous
70. Talkative
71. Employed/job
72. Laid back
73. Faithful
74. Sociable (has a group of friends)
75. Mature
76. Giving eye contact
77. Supportive / Encouraging
78. Sweet/warm
79. Creative / artistic
80. /kids/marriage/family/ Wants large family
81. Helpful
82. Writes
83. Nice teeth (clean and straight)
84. Values family and friends/ Desire for home/ Home-oriented
85. Will powered
86. Hardworking
87. Not addicted to anything/ Doesn't drink/Doesn't smoke
88. Open
89. Likes animals
90. Clean shoes
91. Understanding
92. Generous
93. Good looking/hot/cute/smiling/sexy / handsome/physically attractive/gorgeous
94. Funny/witty/humorous/can make one smile
95. Wears contact lenses
96. Disciplined
97. Can keep a conversation / Conversationalist/skilled at communication / Inter
98. Goal setting
99. Shaggy hair
100. Nice
101. Sarcastic
102. Patient
103. Peaceful
104. Similar religion
105. Can take a joke
106. Sharp
107. Adventurous/fun/exciting/exciting personality
108. Clean-shaven
109. Fatherly
110. Classy
111. Helpful
112. Focused
113. Clear complexion/ clear skin
114. Non-controlling
115. Nice tummy / Ripped abs / Slim
116. Affectionate
117. Someone who is himself and does not try to be what everyone else wants him
118. Shy
119. Someone who is not afraid to show their feelings
120. Nice eyes
121. Opinionated similarly politically
122. Nice back
123. Nice arms
124. Isn't loud
125. Doesn't party all the time / Serious at the right times
126. Someone who likes to take it slow, NOT rush the relationship/looking for a
127. Brevity
128. Chaste / virgin
129. Does NOT swear
130. Thin, any waist size below 30"
131. Between 5'6" and 5'9"
132. Pale skin
133. A cute laugh
134. Sexy hair
135. A nice package
136. A top
137. Aggressive
138. Skilled socially
139. Idealistic
140. same religious or spiritual outlook
141. Good housekeeper
142. Good cook
143. Frugal
144. Musical
6. Please add to this list. What is a character trait that we have not listed here that you look for in a boyfriend or husband? Refer to the list at the end of this document to make sure what you are trying to add is not already listed. Submit Here
Answer by visiting the Message Area.
7. Feel free to suggest other changes, such as using different words. Submit Here
See the Message Area to provide your suggestions.
8. What should we change to make this post more attractive/interesting/popular/exciting/EASY TO UNDERSTAND? Please name all the changes you can think of to improve this NON-FORWARD-MANDATORY info collection system. Submit Here
See the Message Area to leave your suggestions, and help improve this poll.
This poll was created on 2007-06-02 18:25:02 by techron