What would you do (romantic dilemma)?
Suppose you like a girl -- who also likes you, by all appearances -- but you can not date at the moment because you're going through a personal crisis. You are uncertain how long it will take to resolve the crisis. On top of that, you believe that you're sending her mixed signals.
Would you go to her and cautiously inquire, discuss and (ideally) resolve?
| 36% (12) | Yes | |
|---|---|---|
| 9% (3) | No | |
| 54% (18) | Depends; need more information |
33 voters have answered this question.
Would you approach a trusted friend to find out more?
| 34% (11) | Yes: "I like (her). Any signs she likes me, too?" | |
|---|---|---|
| 9% (3) | Yes: "What is (she) like when she likes a guy?" | |
| 18% (6) | Yes: "Is (she) busy, or she is dating right now?" | |
| 37% (12) | No, I would go straight to the girl I like. |
32 voters have answered this question.
Would you decide to be more careful about what signals you're sending out and make sure they don't say "I am interested"?
| 10% (3) | Yes, that might be best. | |
|---|---|---|
| 20% (6) | Yes, but I'm not sure it's the best way. | |
| 17% (5) | Yes, what else can you do? | |
| 51% (15) | No, I don't want her to think she's not desirable. |
29 voters have answered this question.
Would you approach the girl indirectly?
| 33% (10) | Yes, email won't put her on the spot if I'm wrong. | |
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| 16% (5) | Yes, I'd slip her a Valentine asking her to chat. | |
| 50% (15) | No, direct, personal communication is much better. |
30 voters have answered this question.
She mentioned that she will not be celebrating Valentine's day. She did so during a conversation with a friend, but you were only eight feet away at the time of the conversation. Was that a big, fat signal that she's single and was it meant for you?
| 48% (15) | Not necessarily; it depends | |
|---|---|---|
| 32% (10) | She's single; not sure it was meant for you | |
| 9% (3) | She's single and that was for you. Open your eyes! | |
| 0% (0) | She's not single, but it was meant for you | |
| 3% (1) | She's taken and she was only flirting. Move on! | |
| 6% (2) | Good morning, loverboy. Have a nice dream? |
31 voters have answered this question.
This poll was created on 2007-01-31 23:25:27
by InfoSeeker1972
