Cheating -- Do you think I am cheating?
Have you had two or more lovers during the same period of time (I'm not talking about threesomes, etc.)
| 0% (0) | Yes | |
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| 100% (3) | No |
3 voters have answered this question.
Did you try to tell both of them or only one of them about the other?
| 0% (0) | I tried to tell both. | |
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| 0% (0) | Only one; the other was my secret. |
0 voters have answered this question.
Why did you tell either of them about the other?
| 0% (0) | It was the right thing to do. | |
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| 0% (0) | It was convenient. | |
| 0% (0) | Because I felt guilty. | |
| 0% (0) | Because they had a right to know. | |
| 0% (0) | To keep the one or ones I told at a distance. | |
| 0% (0) | To bring the ones I told closer to me. | |
| 0% (0) | To make them jealous. | |
| 0% (0) | To manipulate them. | |
| 0% (0) | To make them choose what to do. | |
| 0% (0) | To clarify our relationship. | |
| 0% (0) | To give them the opportunity of dropping me. |
0 voters have answered this question.
Did one or both of them "take it hard" or get jealous?
| 0% (0) | Yes | |
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| 0% (0) | No |
0 voters have answered this question.
If you did not inform the others, why didn't you?
| 0% (0) | I was afraid of gossip. | |
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| 0% (0) | I wanted to manipulate them. | |
| 0% (0) | I was afraid they'd drop me. | |
| 0% (0) | I was afraid of hurtiing one or both of them. | |
| 0% (0) | I wanted to hurt one or both of them. | |
| 0% (0) | I was afraid of angry arguments and jealousy. | |
| 0% (0) | I was afraid they'd talk and get me into trouble. | |
| 0% (0) | I like keeping secrets. |
0 voters have answered this question.
If you didn't tell them, did they find out anyway?
| 0% (0) | Yes | |
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| 0% (0) | No |
0 voters have answered this question.
When you told one or both, what did they do?
| 0% (0) | They didn't mind. | |
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| 0% (0) | They got indignant and angry. (Even if only one of them...) | |
| 0% (0) | They moralized. | |
| 0% (0) | They tried to get back at me. | |
| 0% (0) | They dropped me. | |
| 0% (0) | I think it excited them. | |
| 0% (0) | It helped the relationship(s). |
0 voters have answered this question.
Did you consider yourself "cheating" for not telling one or all of them?
| 0% (0) | Yes, but I did it anyway. | |
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| 0% (0) | No, because I was being kind. | |
| 0% (0) | Yes, and it taught me a lesson. | |
| 0% (0) | Yes, and I would never do that again. | |
| 0% (0) | No, because I had to do it that way. | |
| 0% (0) | No, I was not committed to any of them. | |
| 0% (0) | No, I wasn't married and I could deceive them if I chose to. | |
| 0% (0) | Yes, which is why I told them. I wanted two or more lovers. | |
| 0% (0) | No, I enjoyed it but it was too much trouble. |
0 voters have answered this question.
Has anyone done this to you?
| 0% (0) | Yes | |
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| 0% (0) | No |
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Fundamentally, how did you react
| 0% (0) | Jealousy. | |
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| 0% (0) | Anger. | |
| 0% (0) | Disappointment. | |
| 0% (0) | Indifference. | |
| 0% (0) | Pleasure--I wanted to get rid of one or more of them. |
0 voters have answered this question.
Will you please write a message telling me about what you did or what someone else did to you and give details so that I may learn from your experience?
| 100% (1) | Yes. | |
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| 0% (0) | No. |
1 voters have answered this question.
