Never Been Loved
Are you male or female?
| 61% (115) | Male | |
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| 38% (73) | Female |
188 voters have answered this question.
Are you currently involved in any form of relationship?
| 1% (3) | Yes, married | |
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| 1% (2) | Yes, engaged/seriously involved | |
| 2% (4) | Yes, casual realtionship | |
| 4% (9) | Yes, but just dating | |
| 12% (23) | No, I choose not to be involved | |
| 78% (149) | No, I have no success and cannot even get a date |
190 voters have answered this question.
How would you best describe your emotional well being?
| 0% (1) | Unbelievably happy. | |
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| 2% (4) | Very happy. | |
| 5% (11) | Happy. | |
| 30% (58) | Been better, been worse. | |
| 15% (30) | Unhappy. | |
| 17% (34) | Very unhappy. | |
| 18% (36) | Seriously depressed. | |
| 8% (16) | Suicidal. |
190 voters have answered this question.
Besides yourself, do you think that anyone else cares how you feel?
| 0% (1) | Of course, I am so loved. | |
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| 31% (59) | Yes, I know there are people who care about me. | |
| 29% (56) | Maybe a little. | |
| 29% (56) | Not really, people mostly care about themselves only. | |
| 8% (17) | I could die right now and no one would know and no one would care. |
189 voters have answered this question.
Why do you think you are alone? Check all that apply.
| 33% (62) | Because I come with personal baggage than no one wants. | |
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| 60% (114) | Because I am physically unattractive. | |
| 58% (110) | Because I am insecure with myself. | |
| 66% (125) | Because I am really inexperienced with relationships for my age, and it shows. | |
| 30% (57) | Because I choose to be alone.. it hurts less. | |
| 39% (73) | I'm afraid to fall in love because all I've ever known is abandonment and heartache. |
187 voters have answered this question.
Do you love yourself?
| 7% (15) | Yes, I love myself completely and without question. | |
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| 19% (36) | Yes, there are things I wish I could change about myself, but all in all, I love who I am. | |
| 13% (26) | I love myself but not as much as I should. | |
| 38% (72) | I've been losing faith.. I care for my well being but I do not love myself. | |
| 12% (23) | I do not love myself and it shows. | |
| 8% (16) | I hate myself passionately, I wish I was never born. |
188 voters have answered this question.
If you found true love today (call it a soulmate if you believe in soulmates).. how would you best describe it's impact on your lonliness?
| 31% (59) | That's the one thing I've always wanted; I'd be completely fulfilled. | |
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| 32% (61) | I'd feel very lucky and happy and a lot less lonely. | |
| 8% (16) | Having someone really special makes me feel less alone. | |
| 17% (33) | At first I'd feel really happy, but sooner or later s/he will leave me. | |
| 11% (21) | It wouldn't even happen because no one can love me or desire me or even acknowledge me. |
190 voters have answered this question.
Are you afraid to die alone?
| 0% (1) | I'll never die alone, I am soooo loved. | |
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| 10% (20) | I know that I never have to be alone if I don't want to. | |
| 38% (72) | Occasionally I worry about dying alone, but that can't stop me from living my life the way I should. | |
| 30% (58) | I worry about it a lot, when I die, I want to be in someone's heart forever. | |
| 20% (38) | I am deathly afraid to die alone.. have even thought about suicide to end the feelings of lonliness. |
189 voters have answered this question.
Do you feel you can change things so you're not so lonely?
| 4% (9) | Definitely, I know exactly what I have to do. | |
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| 21% (41) | I know if I put my emotions in check and accept certain things, I won't have to be alone again. | |
| 37% (70) | The things I can't change are the things that mean the most to me. | |
| 35% (67) | It's so hard to keep going on... feel like I'm alive but I'm not living. |
187 voters have answered this question.
Ladies only please: if you could share your honest thoughts about this, it would help me out a lot. See, I don't have a lot of experience with approaching women. I'm genuinely interested in meeting a good woman for a relationship, casual at first.. I'll go further if things feel right between us (so I'm not out for just a cheap thrill). If I see someone I find attractive, what is the best way I can approach her.. (the middle, conversation part I'm good with).. and get her to want to give me her number? I know there are lots of nice women out there, I just don't know how to keep her attention.. lol. Please post a message here or send me one at IRNWLF4525@aol.com. Thanx! =)
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