Birthday Spankings

Even thou I have been dating my girlfriend for several month the spanking thing has never come up.However for my recent 22nd birthday I requested a real birthday spanking. This request excited her. We discussed for two days how it was to be done. We decided that I should undress and lay across my weight lifting bench. With my legs going around the bench my butt would be in nice spanking position. She gave me 22 hard swats with her hand which delighted us both. We plan on doing more of tis spanking stuff.----I think her bottom could use it too

I want to ask my boyfriend to give me birthday spankings but I do not know how to ask him can anyone give me advice

I want to ask my boyfriend to give me birthday spankings but I do not know how to ask him can anyone give me advice

When he comes over have him sit down on a chair and lay across his lap and tell him it`s my bday, see what he does.

Did you ever succeed?

For what it is worth, dealing with individuals does not admit a one-size-fits-all method or approach. If your boyfriend was secretly wanting what you hoped for, just a coy suggestion should have been enough. If he already sensed what you wanted and if he was not interested, he would have feigned ignorant of your interest, hoping you would drop it.

I would be interested in knowing whether you are both still together and whether things turned out.

If you are still together and if you are still frustrated, please understand that communication in all matters is the life blood of enduring relationships. Competent counselors can facilitate communication and help the two of you communicate better with each other, whatever the issue.

Incidentally, if you have a good relationship with someone you trust and who is your best friend, and it he disappoints you in this one matter, please don't let it stand in the way of your being together. Such relationships are rare.