Punishment of children

I recently turned 17 and am living with my uncle and aunt because my parents have gone to work in Germany and want me to finish my education here in the UK.

I was smacked as a child and my parents gave instructions to my uncle and aunt to continue smacking me if I misbehave because they know I hate it so think it's a very effective way of disciplining me. My uncle already smacks my younger cousins and recently he took my parents' request (because he said I was continually being disobedient), put me across his knee and smacked me with my panties off until I was crying hard. My bottom was very red and sore afterwards and I felt incredibly embarrassed having my female privacy taken away.

I hated him for it but because I don't want it to happen EVER again, I behave exactly the way they want now. Was he wrong to do that to me at my age, please tell me?

When you live in someone else's house, rather your parents, or relatives, you have to live by their rules. Even if that means a bare spanking. In this case your Uncle spanked you for disobeying the rules and since you are under 18 he also had your parent permission. The spanking worked because you now obey the rules (showing respect.) Hopefully you will learn from this experience and use it in future relationships with others. Don;t be made at your Uncle, he is just trying to teach you a valuable lesson.

========== In Reply To ========== I recently turned 17 and am living with my uncle and aunt because my parents have gone to work in Germany and want me to finish my education here in the UK.

I was smacked as a child and my parents gave instructions to my uncle and aunt to continue smacking me if I misbehave because they know I hate it so think it's a very effective way of disciplining me. My uncle already smacks my younger cousins and recently he took my parents' request (because he said I was continually being disobedient), put me across his knee and smacked me with my panties off until I was crying hard. My bottom was very red and sore afterwards and I felt incredibly embarrassed having my female privacy taken away.

I hated him for it but because I don't want it to happen EVER again, I behave exactly the way they want now. Was he wrong to do that to me at my age, please tell me?

Well Scott maybe, but I think it's still out of order and totally disgusting. I got smacked again just a few days ago for "my attitude" and with all the squirmimng I did on his lap he must have seen EVERYTHING between my legs. Six year olds don't think about what they have between their legs as to do with sex, 17 year old's do and that should be private!!!

========== In Reply To ========== When you live in someone else's house, rather your parents, or relatives, you have to live by their rules. Even if that means a bare spanking. In this case your Uncle spanked you for disobeying the rules and since you are under 18 he also had your parent permission. The spanking worked because you now obey the rules (showing respect.) Hopefully you will learn from this experience and use it in future relationships with others. Don;t be made at your Uncle, he is just trying to teach you a valuable lesson.

debbie is a lying little trollop with way too much time on her hands - or at least she was. she hasn't been around lately. fine by me.========== In Reply To ========== Well Scott maybe, but I think it's still out of order and totally disgusting. I got smacked again just a few days ago for "my attitude" and with all the squirmimng I did on his lap he must have seen EVERYTHING between my legs. Six year olds don't think about what they have between their legs as to do with sex, 17 year old's do and that should be private!!!

========== In Reply To ========== debbie is a lying little trollop with way too much time on her hands - or at least she was. she hasn't been around lately. fine by me.

Being spanked made me behave. I was usually hit on the bare bottom and it was embarassing, particularly as I got older. But it did make me behave!