Naughty Diaper Rubbers

I am the father of a naughty 4 year old girl. She is still not potty trained and often after she wets herself she puts her hand down her pull-up and rubs herself. My wife and I have told her not to many times and warned her that she will be spanked. So now if I catch her rubbing herself I immediately pull down her pull-ups (store brand why bother paying more for name brand if she uses them like diapers) and put her over my knee and give her a hard bare bottomed spanking of 30 swats with my hand for rubbing. Then its 10 minutes of corner time bare bottomed. I don't let Kayla touch her reddened butt during corner time as the stinging is to remind her not to rub. Then its back over my knee for another spanking for wetting her training pants. My wife and I also spank Kayla for wetting and messing her pull-ups and nothing else seems to be working. Once I finish with Kayla's second spanking (by this time she is sobbing from her red bottom which was tender already) for her wetting then I put her back in her wet pull-ups for 30 minute corner time to teach her not to wet before finally changing her into new training pants.

She is not doing anything intentionally wrong, and you are totally wrong to punish her for any of this. Some kids potty train earlier than others, that's normal. When she wets or messes, change her, and let that be the end of it.

I have a similar problem with my daughter rubbing herself when wetting and also when she does a poo. We use trainer pants with plastic pants over - disposables are bad for envirnment. When she poos in her trainer pants she is made aware of whats she has done and is spanked with her pants up. Then they are removed and she gets another spank, corner time is time she is made to sit on her potty to learn what its for. If she uses her potty to poo or pee on she gets a reward and is given dry pants. If she doesnt use potty she gets a spank and her wet pants back on

"disposables are bad for envirnment"? a: you spelled it wrong. b:so is driving and smoking but we do it every single day. and c: i flat out don't like enviornmentalists. they cry and whine when someone lights a brushfire....wich i have burning outside right now. ;3 mainly i'm trying to take humans off the top of the food chain. canines deserve it more. in case you haven't noticed...i'm a tad tipsy.