Can guys lose their virginity to another guy?

It was 25 years ago when I had sex for the very first time ever. It was with a male friend of mine one day on the way home from school. We had already done stuff such as get nude in front of each other and even play with each other. But one day, curiosity took hold and the two of us had sex. This was the first time for both of us and I was penetrated first.

I feel that since this was sex and my first time was with a guy, that he took my virginity away. After all, there was penetration. It is nothing that I am ashamed of to have lost it to a guy. I have no problem admitting it at all. But some people feel that virginity loss can only between a guy and a girl. How do you feel about this?

Sex is sex. If you have sex, your not a virgin. So therefore, if you have sex with another guy, your not a virgin.

"Sex is sex. If you have sex, your not a virgin. So therefore, if you have sex with another guy, your not a virgin."

EXACTLY!! Those are my exact sentiments! And most of my friends feel the same thing. However, one friend of mine does feel that it is between a man/woman that virginity loss occurs. No big deal. So why not ask the visitors of misterpoll their opinions? :)

I figure virginity or loss thereof depends more on willingness. Being raped does not take away one's virginity because they are being violated. But when it's mutually consentual sex, the virginity is given to the other person regardless of their gender.

If you really wanted to split hairs you could say that you lost your same-sex virginity to that guy but you still retain your opposite-sex virginity. Or you have your penile virginity but lost your änal virginity. Some girls divide it up to vaginal virginity, änal virginity, oral virginity, etc.

If both people had fun then, all in all, does it really matter?

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